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Not fake, married, female, submissive looking for a Dominant male for regular monthly play sessions, but I need to have a connection, I won’t be a booty call. I have the permission of my husband and if married/attached, you must have the OK from your partner too
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Ive been looking for someone to play with for a few years now. Its hard to work out why its taking so long to find a good match.
There are lots of great men on here and other sites (some not so great admittedly), but there has to be an initial click - good chat. The chat needs to continue beyond the dating site and on the phone and there is the swapping of photos. He doesn’t fancy me or I dont fancy him. That’s all before we meet and see if the physical chemistry is there. So many hurdles to overcome.
Im getting jaded the longer my search continues. Is he out there? Am I looking for something unobtainable?
Below is more info on who Im looking for and some stuff about me… Yes its quite a read - I dont need to be told that, wouldn’t you prefer to know lots before approaching, than waste time writing to a one liner?
I will struggle to respond to one word / one liner messages especially if your profile has almost no information in it too. There’s lots listed below that you can make into a conversation so please make an effort. I also ask that you prove you’ve READ ALL the text, this shows you are actually interested in me. To wheedle out the fakes, I will only reply if you provide the proof asked for.
So enjoy the read and look forward to hearing from you if you feel I could be a good match for you.
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I’m not a slave so dont want a Master and I dont switch so you’d have to be 100% ok with never being sub with me
The Dom Im hoping for has an inner child that he lets loose and he isn’t afraid to experiment, but can laugh if it goes wrong.
Its important to have a connection as that makes play so much better so it would make more sense if you are in a relationship or married otherwise, there is a fear that if we make that connection and you re single, you will still be looking for an LTR and that connection will be lost when you find a partner
As I say, the connection is key. I have to like, want and respect that person, have a laugh with them. There must be a click and we should be on the same wavelength.
If there is none of that or trust and not being open with one another then we are not a match.
I am unable to accommodate, but I am willing to travel to meet within reason and Air BnBs or hotels would be ideal.
You are taller than me (more than 5ft 8inches)
Im a sucker for a suit - 2 or 3 piece and love a man in glasses.
Strawberry blondes, red heads, brown, blond, grey, salt n pepper, bald, etc .
Not averse to a Dad bod.
Ideally, between the ages of 43 and 68.
Likes food especially sushi, enjoys camping and caravans, movies, has a music collection containing at least one musical in it and somehow the elusive chemistry will be there in vast quantities.
Ghosters and anyone who isn’t a gentleman, please dont bother writing to me.
Kinkwise, I like lots of things as you will see from the list below, but like to spice things up with role play too. Saucy secretary and Boss, Doctor and patient, naughty 6th former and Teacher, maid and hotel guest/house owner, wayward prisoner and Guard, Seasons Debutante and Rakish Lord of the Manor - Id love my bodice ripped and another one that Ive not considered before, which is ironic, given I have a love of Knights and armour - a Knight rescuing a damsel in distress and taking her back to his castle. Not expecting the full metal work and the horse could be difficult, a bit of chainmail maybe :)
Talking of horses, another I’m intrigued to try: a Riding Master and his pony. Love the idea of wearing a body harness and bridle and bit :)
PREFERABLES:
Snogs, neck and earlobe nibbling, bondage, bondage, oh and bondage (restrictive bondage is fab), sex, spanking, crops, floggers and paddles. role play, breast and nipple play, gags, hoods, gas masks, blindfolds, latex, leather, chains, ropes, straight jackets, mummification, collars, cuffs, insertables - vibrating or not, cages, racks.
NOT SURES
breast bondage and breast impact play,
HARD LIMITS
Humiliation, breath play, scat, pee, children, animals, stealthing, ra-pe, branding, permanent marks, punching, kicking, cutting, needles, blood, spitting, fisting, graphoerotica, non adjustable nipple clamps, defilement, infantileism, rimming, biting (nibbling is allowed)
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Stuff about me:
Think i was born kinky.
My Sindy doll was often the damsel in distress - taken and tied up when I was young. Then as a teen, I discovered masturbation was vastly improved when you added a little self bondage.
However, in those days society said BDSM was wrong so I hid my true nature and lived a vanilla life.
In 1999 I discovered a kink dating site and suddenly I wasnt alone, there were loads of kinky buggas out there!
My relationship at the time was dying and so I left it and started internet dating on various fetish sites.
I met and dated some amazing (and not so amazing) people, some of whom taught me so much about myself.
Internet dating does work, I met the man who would become my husband through a fetish dating site!
We have a wonderful relationship and we are bondage enthusiasts, but my submissive side wasnt quite getting its airing and so he (amazingly) gave me permission to find a Play Dom.
I met a great Dom and for a few years we had a great time until Covid changed things so now Im starting the search again.
Im a huge romantic.
One of my top 10 films is Gone with the Wind, although I preferred the book - Scarlett wasnt quite so much of a beeatch in the book.
Im not looking for a Rhett lookalike though, i just loved the dominance of Rhett and how he tamed Scarlett.
Id liken you to the way Rhett Butler acted towards Scarlett. Send me regular emails and texts, esp morning or evening ones so I know you’re thinking of me.
I won’t automatically go from an initial email to making a date for a drink, so please be patient.
Being happily married I cannot offer a 24/7/365 relationship - NB My husband isnt interested in being any part of the dynamic.
If you are married or attached, your OH needs to know what you are up to, I dont like the idea of hiding us as it makes it seem sleazy and this sort of thing is so not that plus I wouldn’t want to be treated like that so don’t want to put another through it.
I am a menopausal women in her 50s. If you prefer a svelte little something, then Im not for you. However, if you like Rubenesque: boobs and bums, Ive got quite a handful of both
Please be aware that I have responsibilities in real life so sometimes only have the time to read your message, but not enough to send a consolidated response - please have patience.
So now you know some stuff about me, why not drop me a line?
If you want to make me a Very Happy subby and show that you are actually interested then please let me know your fave flavour of crisps, what arena you get your current affairs from and your star sign as proof you’ve read this far
Also here’s a conversation starter for you: Who or what’s your favourite cartoon character?
Hope Ive peaked your interest and look forward to hearing from you soon :D
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Dom Wanted
| Sex: | Female |
| Orientation: | submissive |
| Location: | Peterborough |
| Age: | 54 years |
| Sponsoring: | I don't expect money |
| Marital status: | married |
| I'm looking for a: | man |
| Height: | 5ft 8in (173 cm) |
| Weight: | 1st 0lb (6.4 kg) |
| I like most: | bondage |
| Light or hard: | hard |
| I like: | bondage, spanking, pain, sex, fetish |
| Last login: | I'm online |
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Quick Summary
Not fake, married, female, submissive looking for a Dominant male for regular monthly play sessions, but I need to have a connection, I won’t be a booty call. I have the permission of my husband and if married/attached, you must have the OK from your partner too
__________________________
Ive been looking for someone to play with for a few years now. Its hard to work out why its taking so long to find a good match.
There are lots of great men on here and other sites (some not so great admittedly), but there has to be an initial click - good chat. The chat needs to continue beyond the dating site and on the phone and there is the swapping of photos. He doesn’t fancy me or I dont fancy him. That’s all before we meet and see if the physical chemistry is there. So many hurdles to overcome.
Im getting jaded the longer my search continues. Is he out there? Am I looking for something unobtainable?
Below is more info on who Im looking for and some stuff about me… Yes its quite a read - I dont need to be told that, wouldn’t you prefer to know lots before approaching, than waste time writing to a one liner?
I will struggle to respond to one word / one liner messages especially if your profile has almost no information in it too. There’s lots listed below that you can make into a conversation so please make an effort. I also ask that you prove you’ve READ ALL the text, this shows you are actually interested in me. To wheedle out the fakes, I will only reply if you provide the proof asked for.
So enjoy the read and look forward to hearing from you if you feel I could be a good match for you.
__________________________________
I’m not a slave so dont want a Master and I dont switch so you’d have to be 100% ok with never being sub with me
The Dom Im hoping for has an inner child that he lets loose and he isn’t afraid to experiment, but can laugh if it goes wrong.
Its important to have a connection as that makes play so much better so it would make more sense if you are in a relationship or married otherwise, there is a fear that if we make that connection and you re single, you will still be looking for an LTR and that connection will be lost when you find a partner
As I say, the connection is key. I have to like, want and respect that person, have a laugh with them. There must be a click and we should be on the same wavelength.
If there is none of that or trust and not being open with one another then we are not a match.
I am unable to accommodate, but I am willing to travel to meet within reason and Air BnBs or hotels would be ideal.
You are taller than me (more than 5ft 8inches)
Im a sucker for a suit - 2 or 3 piece and love a man in glasses.
Strawberry blondes, red heads, brown, blond, grey, salt n pepper, bald, etc .
Not averse to a Dad bod.
Ideally, between the ages of 43 and 68.
Likes food especially sushi, enjoys camping and caravans, movies, has a music collection containing at least one musical in it and somehow the elusive chemistry will be there in vast quantities.
Ghosters and anyone who isn’t a gentleman, please dont bother writing to me.
Kinkwise, I like lots of things as you will see from the list below, but like to spice things up with role play too. Saucy secretary and Boss, Doctor and patient, naughty 6th former and Teacher, maid and hotel guest/house owner, wayward prisoner and Guard, Seasons Debutante and Rakish Lord of the Manor - Id love my bodice ripped and another one that Ive not considered before, which is ironic, given I have a love of Knights and armour - a Knight rescuing a damsel in distress and taking her back to his castle. Not expecting the full metal work and the horse could be difficult, a bit of chainmail maybe :)
Talking of horses, another I’m intrigued to try: a Riding Master and his pony. Love the idea of wearing a body harness and bridle and bit :)
PREFERABLES:
Snogs, neck and earlobe nibbling, bondage, bondage, oh and bondage (restrictive bondage is fab), sex, spanking, crops, floggers and paddles. role play, breast and nipple play, gags, hoods, gas masks, blindfolds, latex, leather, chains, ropes, straight jackets, mummification, collars, cuffs, insertables - vibrating or not, cages, racks.
NOT SURES
breast bondage and breast impact play,
HARD LIMITS
Humiliation, breath play, scat, pee, children, animals, stealthing, ra-pe, branding, permanent marks, punching, kicking, cutting, needles, blood, spitting, fisting, graphoerotica, non adjustable nipple clamps, defilement, infantileism, rimming, biting (nibbling is allowed)
______________________________________________________________
Stuff about me:
Think i was born kinky.
My Sindy doll was often the damsel in distress - taken and tied up when I was young. Then as a teen, I discovered masturbation was vastly improved when you added a little self bondage.
However, in those days society said BDSM was wrong so I hid my true nature and lived a vanilla life.
In 1999 I discovered a kink dating site and suddenly I wasnt alone, there were loads of kinky buggas out there!
My relationship at the time was dying and so I left it and started internet dating on various fetish sites.
I met and dated some amazing (and not so amazing) people, some of whom taught me so much about myself.
Internet dating does work, I met the man who would become my husband through a fetish dating site!
We have a wonderful relationship and we are bondage enthusiasts, but my submissive side wasnt quite getting its airing and so he (amazingly) gave me permission to find a Play Dom.
I met a great Dom and for a few years we had a great time until Covid changed things so now Im starting the search again.
Im a huge romantic.
One of my top 10 films is Gone with the Wind, although I preferred the book - Scarlett wasnt quite so much of a beeatch in the book.
Im not looking for a Rhett lookalike though, i just loved the dominance of Rhett and how he tamed Scarlett.
Id liken you to the way Rhett Butler acted towards Scarlett. Send me regular emails and texts, esp morning or evening ones so I know you’re thinking of me.
I won’t automatically go from an initial email to making a date for a drink, so please be patient.
Being happily married I cannot offer a 24/7/365 relationship - NB My husband isnt interested in being any part of the dynamic.
If you are married or attached, your OH needs to know what you are up to, I dont like the idea of hiding us as it makes it seem sleazy and this sort of thing is so not that plus I wouldn’t want to be treated like that so don’t want to put another through it.
I am a menopausal women in her 50s. If you prefer a svelte little something, then Im not for you. However, if you like Rubenesque: boobs and bums, Ive got quite a handful of both
Please be aware that I have responsibilities in real life so sometimes only have the time to read your message, but not enough to send a consolidated response - please have patience.
So now you know some stuff about me, why not drop me a line?
If you want to make me a Very Happy subby and show that you are actually interested then please let me know your fave flavour of crisps, what arena you get your current affairs from and your star sign as proof you’ve read this far
Also here’s a conversation starter for you: Who or what’s your favourite cartoon character?
Hope Ive peaked your interest and look forward to hearing from you soon :D
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