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A highly sensual plus size sub

Age:41 years
Sponsoring:I don't expect money
Marital status:single
I'm looking for a:man
Height:5ft 6in (168 cm)
Weight:22st 6lb (142.4 kg)
I like most:sex
Light or hard:hard
I like:bondage, spanking, sex
Last login:3 days ago

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for a few months now I have been on this site and met some interesting people.
However, I am not looking for more friends, though that never hurts, but essentially I am looking for someone to share my life with who also has a keen interest in BDSM and identifies as a Dom.

Having chatted to many Dom's on here I realise I do not fit the general description of a sub. Submission for me does not mean being blindly obedient, never being able to question or discuss things, being expected to give myself over fully without establishing trust - I simply am not a door mat!

Harsh? Maybe, but this has been my personal experience.
I have a strong sub side in me but I am also smart and curious and inquisitive and adventurous and shy and timid.
To win me over you need to win my mind first, than my trust after which you will have my full attentions and devotion if there is a connection.

I am not seeking a 24/7 relationship and equally not looking for a one off or play Dom's. If you are married or only separated please spare us the time and not bother contacting me.
I have been in these situations before and do not wish to repeat them.
This time I wish to be the main attraction and not a side act!

My submission is sensual and tactile. It is about exploring the boundaries of pleasure and pain and go beyond into the unknown.
What it is not is cruelty, humiliation, fear, extreme pain without pleasure and punishments without reason.

If you have read this far and do not fall into one of the categories described in the next paragraph, I would love hearing from you in a messages that contains more than just one word :-) I am aware most of you must be jaded and do not bother to write more than and intro one liner. However, I find it shows a lot about a person who can write a proper introduction that is not based on questioning sexual preferences.

Looking forward to meet you,


N.B! Please do not contact me if you are new to BDSM, a switch (I believe you have to simply make a decision if you are D/s - can't be both) or a sub (for obvious reasons). I am also not interested in weekend/ virtual Relationships, so you need to be in commutable distance.

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