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MrUK1953

Not doormat, likes to be controlled

Sex:Male
Orientation:submissive
Location:Winchester
Age:72 years
Sponsoring:I don't expect money
Marital status:married
I'm looking for a:woman, couple
Height:5ft 7in (170 cm)
Weight:9st 8lb (60.8 kg)
I like most:sex
Light or hard:hard
I like:bondage, spanking, sex, pissing, fetish, fisting, other
Last login:in last 30 days

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I get my main pleasure from knowing someone is controlling me and getting pleasure from doing so, but can also get pleasure from controlling someone who enjoys this even though I am really more sub than Dom. I am particularly into CNC.

My ideal scenario is beingI am much more submissive than dominant, although I can dominate a CIS or trans female if required.

It has taken me a long time to figure out what turns me on, but I think now I almost have it. I have outlined below what that is. If you want to do something completely different with me that is ok, and if I am the submissive I will allow you to do whatever you wish and follow your every command regardless of whether it is on my "turn on" list. If you check with others who have dominated me they will tell you that is the case. But if most of what happens is not on the list I may feel unwilling to return, particularly if I am paying for the privilege. Naturally, though, I would not expect you to do most or all of what is on the list unless you happen to get great pleasure from doing so.

If you are a CIS female dominant, the following turn me on. I have said "You and your friends" as I am particularly turned on when subjected to domination by a group of ladies (or even a lady and her male friends), but if you are alone, simply read that as "You".

• You and your friends spit into my mouth.
• You and your friends pee over me.
• You and your friends use me as a urinal.
• You and your friends make me smell and caress your stocking covered feet.
• You and your friends make me suck your dirty toes, and swallow the toe cheese.
• You and your friends make me give you cunnilingus.
• You and your friends make me rim you.
• You and your friends insert your fingers and play inside my anus and make me lick your fingers clean afterwards.
• You and your friends wank me hard.
• You and your friends deeply French kiss me.
• You and your friends have penetrative sex with me, completely controlling it yourselves.
• You and your friends bind me then gently slap my bottom and my face.
• You make me suck off an unwilling man until he cums, while you and your friends enjoy watching us being humiliated.
• Some or all of what happens is filmed and/or photographed, and you then imply that this will be published unless I come to you and submit again when you wish, including perhaps submitting to things not on my list.

All of the above also applies if you are a Transgender Female who at least has some feminine looks.

If you are a TV who does not particularly look feminine (I realise, though, that is a subjective assessment, and ultimately will go with your assessment in this) all of the above applies except using me as your urinal and swallowing your toe cheese.


If you are a submissive I am happy to

• pee over you
• use you as a urinal
• make you wank me
• make you suck me off
• make you rim me
• make you massage and kiss my feet
• make you French kiss me
• make you insert your fingers and play inside my anus, sucking your fingers afterwards
• make you have penetrative sex with me
• slap your bottom
• slap your face
• do any or all of the above with someone else

You can, of course, specify which of the above you wish to happen and which you do not. I know many, for example, would not want penetrative sex and you may be assured neither this nor anything else will happen unless it is what you want.

I am happily married and she knows nothing about this, so I cannot accommodate, but I am happy to travel to most places as long as I can get there and back by car in a day, or anywhere in the UK if you are happy for me to stay overnight to recover before my home journey.

If I "remember" or contact you and you feel I am too far away, I will have done so because I can see beyond the distance and believe we can meet for real. For example I have family members in Wales and in the Midlands, so may combine a visit to them with one to you. Or I am simply so attracted to you that I am happy to travel the long distance just to enjoy being with you. I am not a time waster, so won't have contacted or remembered you for no reason at all.

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