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I am looking for a meeting of hearts and minds

Age:58 years
Sponsoring:I don't expect money
Marital status:divorced
I'm looking for a:man
Height:5ft 5in (165 cm)
Weight:11st 10lb (74.4 kg)
I like most:sex
Light or hard:light
I like:bondage, spanking, pain, sex, pissing, fetish, fisting
Last login:6 days ago

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A good friend on the scene recently brought my attention to this quote (possibly by Oscar Wilde).
“Everything in life is about sex except sex. Sex is about power.”

I suppose my main kink is power play. Within this, honesty and good communication are very important to me, as are respect and forgiveness.

I very much enjoy social events such as munches and love to meet new people. I have some very good friends on the scene and am extremely grateful to them for their support and companionship.

With regards to kink, I am quite old school. I like protocol and ritual, and I suppose my primary tendency is towards submission rather than masochism or being a brat.

I can be quite sensitive- so not keen, for example, on being mocked, or punished for expressing emotion. I enjoy restraint, verbal humiliation, light cp, role play such as nun and priest play and some medical fetish. I am also quite sensual and have more than a touch of the exhibitionist and slut.

I am curious about polyamory, and very much exploring in this respect.

Kink and bdsm for me are at their richest when coupled with a willingness to explore safely the hidden side of our nature. I feel this can only happen from a position of openness and trust. For me, bdsm can be likened to a fairy tale from Grimm or Hans Christian Andersen, where beauty and sinister cruelty coexist.

In my vanilla life I like music, in particular classical, and am interested in politics and ideas. I am quite left wing, and possibly a bit of a hippy.

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