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Before you start on this get yourself a drink, some snacks & do NOT try to read it on a phone whilst walking.
Apparently this page is overly long for some to get all the way through. I don't care. This is my page. The place for thoughts and openness. Not my fault if your attention span is so tiny. As for blank profiles & "ask me" or “whatever”. PHA!!)
For blokes contacting me I will charge £500 or so just to tie/cane/crop/whip you ------ (No physical contact. Just the impact session)
For ladies & couples (at my discretion) I will charge £150 by the hour. For longer sessions I charge £500 for up to four hours or overnight to keep a lady company. (Between one & four hours I stick to the £150 per our & adjust for one and a half, two etc.)
My belief is that what I share with a partner should be mutually pleasurable. I know that attitude does not seem to be common and my regarding shared sensual times (that includes long aftercare periods) as conflicting somewhat with the views of many.
I am not orientated about forcing any lady out of what stimulates her mind and body and I am certainly not interesting in just having my way no matter what. THAT dear reader, is abuse.
Exploring and potentially pushing limits together is a huge part of the pleasure with any partner(s).
For me any sort of BDSM activity is NOT an essential goal for all meetings.
Any lady always gets cuddle time & gentle unwinding after a session be it a gentle one or a hard rough one.
Bondage is my favoured 'kink' & not necessarily leading to anything other than a lady entering her 'sub space' and I am fully aware that not every Submissive can enter that mind-state in ways that some seem to rave about.
In other words mutual pleasure and satisfaction is my focus. Not an elusive ideal of mental state.
Also, penetration and the rest of what is implied within intimacy is not mandatory.
(Yes, many will regard that in itself as weird I know. I do not give a damn about what might be considered 'normal'.)
Abandoning a session or activity because it is not working is never wrong. Always no matter what, talking about what was good, bad, uncomfortable or whatever is a core aspect of aftercare for me. (And this is advice that so many seem to ignore)
Again, many will see that as strange I know and also I can not just 'hit & run' as so many seem to want to do.
I am not a fan of one-night stands but I do know that sometimes that is the result that comes about if the physical side of a meet does not work for all.
To me this is not about building up a score card or whatever.
I still think the “Gentle Dom” reference works as an easy term to grasp as in I can enjoy 'almost' vanilla all the way through to harsh (with all levels in-between) depending on what is suited to my partner and the occasion.
I am have been (VERY) happily divorced for many years now and interested to discover who might want to play (locally?) to me.
Playful & sub ladies to the front along with sapiosexual, cheeky ones and cuckolding/hotwife couples.
I am average size (or so I am told) and my ex often complained that I lasted too long......
(Actually that ties in 100% with the 'shadow' term at the start of this drivel.)
I have an appreciation for ladies who dress for the occasion and who are not afraid to discuss what is appropriate for their tastes & needs especially as to how sensual, gentle (or hard) they wish to explore.
Messages on here before any meeting in person so we both know what we are considering committing to. That first meeting to be in a safe neutral environment so as to explore if the (online) meeting of minds results in mutual attraction before any physical contact.
I have in the past provided 'help' for couples who wish to experience cuckolding (by arrangement) sometimes with a BDSM/spanking twist so the lady has had 'evidence' from her exploits to display to her partner after.
Being able to provide a lady and by implication a couple with such shared pleasures is a delight in itself.
I have also been the protagonist in "kidnap" role play scenarios and have been asked to provide photographic 'services' before for ladies and couples and I am happy to do just that.
Well versed in rope restraints, cuffs, spanking, floggers, cane, riding crop, tormenting with toys, ice, candle wax, orgasm denial, fisting, anal, oral, as well as fetish photography and outside play as well as indoor. I do not use (or keep) a store of specialist rigging, restraints, devices or whatever. Preferring instead to keep anything basic, simple with a few hanks of rope and lengths of cord in the main.
Sometimes I enjoy some role-play & CNC.
I do not use gags unless they are a specific request from a lady. Also I do not deliberately leave marks unless they are requested.
I do not indulge in toilet games, ch*ke holds or blood play/cutting or anything of that ilk.
Thoughts worth bearing in mind - Taking things way too seriously is not good. Sex is funny. Actually it's hilarious. Somewhere along the line, someone is going to fall off of a bed, hit their head on a lighting fixture, accidentally kick a midget goat or trip over a fridge.
I dare you to message me and see if my response makes you smile.
If you DO message I WILL respond.
For anyone I send a message to who do not have the courtesy to respond, well it says a lot about you.
Same for 'ghosting'. It is just damn rude and I do not do such things.
Say 'Hi". It can be fun
Oh, and as for any guys pretending to be couples or ladies......Don't get get me started.
If any messages I receive are apparently from a robot, well I will deliver abuse as I see fit. I do not give a shit if it offends their users.
A further 'note'. From time to time my phone number is requested to chat. Not really possible. For one thing I am mostly quite deaf & have tinnitis so rarely use a phone as I can not hear a phone ring & struggle to hear anyone if I do make a call. I prefer messages on here or if there is a meeting of minds via email. If that leads to face to face, well it tends to work out OK.
(I do not know if this site shows 'Copy & Paste warning but I DO type into a word-processing programme then cut & paste. I rely on the spell checker)
Enjoy!
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Verified member (what's that?)
Verified members are usually genuine and serious about making a BDSM relationship.Had enough of pretenders. Doing it for the money n
| Sex: | Male |
| Orientation: | dominant |
| Location: | Bideford |
| Age: | 64 years |
| Sponsoring: | I expect money |
| Marital status: | divorced |
| I'm looking for a: | woman, couple |
| Height: | 5ft 6in (168 cm) |
| Weight: | 10st 12lb (68.9 kg) |
| I like most: | other |
| Light or hard: | light |
| I like: | bondage, spanking, pain, sex, fetish, fisting, wax, clips, other |
| Last login: | in last 3 days |
Message him for free
Remember him
Before you start on this get yourself a drink, some snacks & do NOT try to read it on a phone whilst walking.
Apparently this page is overly long for some to get all the way through. I don't care. This is my page. The place for thoughts and openness. Not my fault if your attention span is so tiny. As for blank profiles & "ask me" or “whatever”. PHA!!)
For blokes contacting me I will charge £500 or so just to tie/cane/crop/whip you ------ (No physical contact. Just the impact session)
For ladies & couples (at my discretion) I will charge £150 by the hour. For longer sessions I charge £500 for up to four hours or overnight to keep a lady company. (Between one & four hours I stick to the £150 per our & adjust for one and a half, two etc.)
My belief is that what I share with a partner should be mutually pleasurable. I know that attitude does not seem to be common and my regarding shared sensual times (that includes long aftercare periods) as conflicting somewhat with the views of many.
I am not orientated about forcing any lady out of what stimulates her mind and body and I am certainly not interesting in just having my way no matter what. THAT dear reader, is abuse.
Exploring and potentially pushing limits together is a huge part of the pleasure with any partner(s).
For me any sort of BDSM activity is NOT an essential goal for all meetings.
Any lady always gets cuddle time & gentle unwinding after a session be it a gentle one or a hard rough one.
Bondage is my favoured 'kink' & not necessarily leading to anything other than a lady entering her 'sub space' and I am fully aware that not every Submissive can enter that mind-state in ways that some seem to rave about.
In other words mutual pleasure and satisfaction is my focus. Not an elusive ideal of mental state.
Also, penetration and the rest of what is implied within intimacy is not mandatory.
(Yes, many will regard that in itself as weird I know. I do not give a damn about what might be considered 'normal'.)
Abandoning a session or activity because it is not working is never wrong. Always no matter what, talking about what was good, bad, uncomfortable or whatever is a core aspect of aftercare for me. (And this is advice that so many seem to ignore)
Again, many will see that as strange I know and also I can not just 'hit & run' as so many seem to want to do.
I am not a fan of one-night stands but I do know that sometimes that is the result that comes about if the physical side of a meet does not work for all.
To me this is not about building up a score card or whatever.
I still think the “Gentle Dom” reference works as an easy term to grasp as in I can enjoy 'almost' vanilla all the way through to harsh (with all levels in-between) depending on what is suited to my partner and the occasion.
I am have been (VERY) happily divorced for many years now and interested to discover who might want to play (locally?) to me.
Playful & sub ladies to the front along with sapiosexual, cheeky ones and cuckolding/hotwife couples.
I am average size (or so I am told) and my ex often complained that I lasted too long......
(Actually that ties in 100% with the 'shadow' term at the start of this drivel.)
I have an appreciation for ladies who dress for the occasion and who are not afraid to discuss what is appropriate for their tastes & needs especially as to how sensual, gentle (or hard) they wish to explore.
Messages on here before any meeting in person so we both know what we are considering committing to. That first meeting to be in a safe neutral environment so as to explore if the (online) meeting of minds results in mutual attraction before any physical contact.
I have in the past provided 'help' for couples who wish to experience cuckolding (by arrangement) sometimes with a BDSM/spanking twist so the lady has had 'evidence' from her exploits to display to her partner after.
Being able to provide a lady and by implication a couple with such shared pleasures is a delight in itself.
I have also been the protagonist in "kidnap" role play scenarios and have been asked to provide photographic 'services' before for ladies and couples and I am happy to do just that.
Well versed in rope restraints, cuffs, spanking, floggers, cane, riding crop, tormenting with toys, ice, candle wax, orgasm denial, fisting, anal, oral, as well as fetish photography and outside play as well as indoor. I do not use (or keep) a store of specialist rigging, restraints, devices or whatever. Preferring instead to keep anything basic, simple with a few hanks of rope and lengths of cord in the main.
Sometimes I enjoy some role-play & CNC.
I do not use gags unless they are a specific request from a lady. Also I do not deliberately leave marks unless they are requested.
I do not indulge in toilet games, ch*ke holds or blood play/cutting or anything of that ilk.
Thoughts worth bearing in mind - Taking things way too seriously is not good. Sex is funny. Actually it's hilarious. Somewhere along the line, someone is going to fall off of a bed, hit their head on a lighting fixture, accidentally kick a midget goat or trip over a fridge.
I dare you to message me and see if my response makes you smile.
If you DO message I WILL respond.
For anyone I send a message to who do not have the courtesy to respond, well it says a lot about you.
Same for 'ghosting'. It is just damn rude and I do not do such things.
Say 'Hi". It can be fun
Oh, and as for any guys pretending to be couples or ladies......Don't get get me started.
If any messages I receive are apparently from a robot, well I will deliver abuse as I see fit. I do not give a shit if it offends their users.
A further 'note'. From time to time my phone number is requested to chat. Not really possible. For one thing I am mostly quite deaf & have tinnitis so rarely use a phone as I can not hear a phone ring & struggle to hear anyone if I do make a call. I prefer messages on here or if there is a meeting of minds via email. If that leads to face to face, well it tends to work out OK.
(I do not know if this site shows 'Copy & Paste warning but I DO type into a word-processing programme then cut & paste. I rely on the spell checker)
Enjoy!
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