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Brutal. Ritual and protocol based
Sex: | Male |
Orientation: | dominant |
Location: | Sheffield |
Age: | 41 years |
Sponsoring: | I don't expect money |
Marital status: | single |
I'm looking for a: | woman, couple |
Height: | 5ft 6in (168 cm) |
Weight: | 12st 10lb (80.7 kg) |
I like most: | other |
Light or hard: | very hard |
I like: | spanking, pain, sex, pissing, fetish, clips, other |
Last login: | over 30 days ago |
Message him for freeRemember himI am successful, rich, well established, and have a very low tolerance for nonsense. I have indulged in BDSM more than ten years, and enjoyed being served by quite a few submissives and slave girls, some who entered this lifestyle under Me. I am clear in what I expect, and what I offer.
First, who would be suitable to My style. A girl who looks after herself would fit into My world. If you don't care for yourself physically, emotionally and spiritually, I would not be able to provide you anything that would save you, emotionally or otherwise. I have a busy work life, and an extremely fulfilling personal life. I take My time and effort investments seriously, and expect My submissive to have a baseline order in her life in order to value the time I take to guiding and training her. It would be good if you have a detailed profile (more than a list of "I want..." or a variation of "I want sex..."). It makes a positive impression to know what you do to take care of yourself, what gifts you have, what makes you a good submissive, and how you see yourself enriching a dynamic. In a later section I have touched on physical intimacy. However, I would expect you have qualities beyond physical beauty and "warm set of holes". Yes, you are dying to serve as a sex toy. Do you paint? Are you a songstress? Highlighting these in your profile would stand you apart.
Second, My style of dominance. Very much a D/s type, with gradual building on protocols, rituals, acts and acceptance of service. I am not an overt masochist or rigger, although most slaves have daily rituals of obedience (think of routine daily breast-caning). I find this reinforces roles and dynamics, and satisfies a sexual and physical submission in the submissive's thoughts. I do enjoy whipping, however, usually with restraints, including restraints for legs, breast and clitoral clamps, which are more for My own visual enjoyment, and the slaves who have served Me always confess the taxing nature of these reinforce their submission headspace. In an established and fluid dynamic, you may ofcourse make your wants and needs known. If being tied tought toes to hair is how a slave craves to be whipped (which has been/is requested often), I can certainly take you through the yoga manual of BDSM and have you begging for mercy.
Humiliation is what I enjoy the most in a dynamic. Imagine enforced dress codes (including compulsory nudity, daily inspection of smoothness, compulsory anal plug), protocol-led service (there is a proper way to hand a cup of coffee), guidance (yes, I do select your meals) acts of devotion and service, being provided meals in petbowls, being kept caged, sleeping in chains, orgasm denial. It is important that your focus is on service (to a high standard). If these are not priorities in your idea of a D/s relationship, or you find correction, guidance, and service tedious, I am not the right Dominant for you. There are many men here who would enjoy having sex with you, as rough as you would like. I am not dying to be one of them, and I would politely suggest you pursue one of them.
you will be encouraged to reflect, journal, discuss (with permission), ask. your intiative in growing as a sub/slave will be given consideration. There is a place for a mindless slave, as much as there is for an intellectual woman. Yes, there is punishment (from lines, to kneeling, to caging), and for the right dynamic there is "funishment". The two have never mixed. Denial of privileges (gags, cornertime, chastity belt, remaining on all fours) is the usual soft punishment, but punishments equate the infraction. I am disciplinarian, and subs and slaves have been known to suffer the cage in chains and plug for a considerable time. Painal is a punishment. If you are not a fan of anal intercourse, that would not change the manner of the punishment.
Physical intimacy, sexual use and service are improtant, but there is a reason this is left to this later section. By the time you are accepted in a dynamic with Me, this part will come naturally, both to yourself from a submissive headspace, and to Me as your Dominant. As a basic rule, you are expected to be available for intimacy at all times you are in My company, The discretion of where, how and in which manner penetration occurs is not left for the sub/slave to adjudge. There are protocols and aspects of sexual intimacy that I do enjoy, and when you are keen to learn, W/we can discuss in much more detail. If there are particular manners of aftercare you wish to experience, you will be encouraged to make these known.
I do not "share" My submissives, although if I am particularly proud of you (in demeanour and service, and not your physical looks alone), I may display you in kink-events. Again, how you are displayed (whether clothed, in the nude, in leash etc) is a decision taken at My discretion. I do not set up gang-bangs, for you or any other soul, and it is unlikely I would allow you to serve elsewhere, physically or sexually.
I do not jump to claim a title of "Master". However, basic courtesies are a good place to start. If you are reading this and you wish to message Me, I would expect this is because you are a submissive-minded woman. If this is the case, I would expect in this regard to be addressed as "Sir" as a matter of courtesy. If I message you, it will be using your username, you may refer to yourself as you would wish for Me to address you (this may or may not change in future interactions).
I trust this has allowed you an insight into the world that is here. Drop Me a message if you wish to get in touch. In any case, I hope you have a safe and sensual journey in the world of BDSM.
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