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cheekylass

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Seeking real disciplinarian

Sex:Female
Orientation:submissive
Location:Leeds
Age:49 years
Sponsoring:I don't expect money
Marital status:single
I'm looking for a:woman
Height:5ft 8in (173 cm)
Weight:10st 1lb (64 kg)
I like most:bondage
Light or hard:very hard
I like:bondage, spanking, pain, fetish
Last login:4 days ago

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*** Not particularly 'looking' at the moment, I'm just keeping the profile open to stay in touch with a few people ***

Hi, I'm looking for a genuine disciplinary arrangement in which I am punished if I fail to meet mutually agreed goals. This is a serious proposition and I'll be happy to discuss it further in messages if I feel we have a connection and are within reasonable travelling distance of each other.

I have been no stranger to the BDSM scene in the past and have enjoyed impact play involving whips, paddles, crops etc but this is obviously a different dynamic and headspace. I don't find taking the cane all that pleasurable, which I think makes it an ideal punishment for the disciplinary regime. The idea is that such punishments have to be a credible deterrent if this is going to work.

I'm looking for a proper disciplinarian and mentor to assist me with this. Please don't bother if you're an opportunist hoping to bluff your way into such a role as I'll rumble you fairly quickly.

Please also note that although I don't mind some roleplay and dressing for the part (e.g. the classic headmistress's study scenario or maybe the wayward secretary), I have no interest in the Dom/sub dynamic. I've always been more interested in the physical aspects (i.e. what has come to be known as "impact play") of BDSM than in "power exchange" (or whatever you want to call the mind games).

Best wishes,

CL

MEN PLEASE READ BEFORE MESSAGING: Although my stated preference is for women, I still get a lot of approaches from men. I don't rule out men completely but very few make the grade because too many here come across as lecherous chancers or have vile attitudes towards LGBT people like me. If that description fits you, please don't waste your time and mine. Thanks.

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