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Would you like to play a game with me? ;-)
Currently looking for an online relationship only. Yes, I would prefer to have a relationship without the online part. No, at the moment, that is impossible. The why is work-related and I might be tempted to say more in private. The how is tricky, but if you imagine "stranded on an oil rig in the middle of the ocean", you'll be spot on (without the oil rig, ocean and sweaty male co-workers, lol). The when is that I should be back home around the first quarter of 2026 (Holly, thanks for the suggestion! / Didn't find anyone worth coming back for yet, so on we go for another year).
About me:
1. What do I like? Binding, torture, mental domination, degradation, training. These are topics that we will definitely agree on rather than a shopping list.
2. Yes, I am an ugly, evil dominant, rigger and trainer. ;-P
3. Yes, I have a lot of experience, especially with ropes. Bunnies welcome anytime, anywhere.
4. Patience is supposedly a virtue, so it seems that I'm not all sin. Seriously, though, I can match your pace, especially if you are just starting on BDSM.
5. I'm surprisingly well-practiced in safety (and first aid, in the worst case scenario), and if you are a fan of medical-style games, I guarantee that... I'm good at bandaging. ;-)
About you:
1. Preference for old-school domination over an idiot with a whip.
2. Looking for a LTR. Being up for a TPE or 24/7 relationship in the future is most welcome but not mandatory.
3. On the mascochism spectrum - again, this is not a requirement, but a welcome coincidence.
4. Above average in some way. I can take pride in the submission of somebody, not a nobody.
5. You are not a man (regardless of orientation), a dominant woman (let's be serious) or a spambot. I don't like spambots.
6. Statistics don't scare you. I'm sorry, this topic comes up and if you are allergic to it, you may suffer a bit. Of course, if you're into statistics-play, I won't judge. ;-)
7. You may be completely inexperienced, very experienced, or somewhere in between. Adjusting the "difficulty level" to a submissive is not a problem.
Public service announcements:
I am available on IRC, Toxie (tox.chat) and by e-mail. I do not use other messengers. If you want to contact me outside this portal, write and give me the contact details/ask for mine, but stick to the above trinity and do not ask me to use another messenger. If you do ask me to use another app, do not expect me to reply.
Since I receive quite a lot of messages, a few more announcements:
1. Messages from men and spambots are deleted automatically.
2. If you want to learn tying from me (Western, Asanawa/Shibari, SEA, China), you have to pay for my time - I don't currently have enough of it to devote half a day to someone for a kind word (or lack thereof).
3. If you want/expect something from me, write it directly - after e.g. thirty messages in a given day, I am not always in the mood for interpretive analysis, and as you can guess, I'm not a linguist.
Updates:
1. Most people here are time wasters. If you're one of them, do not message me at all.
2. If you ask for a video call, I accept and you go silent instead of discussing the particulars, do not message me at all.
3. If you subscribe to any other kind of idiocy (this site seems to keep on giving), please do not message me at all.
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MisterTorture
Mister torture gives pain...
| Sex: | Male |
| Orientation: | dominant |
| Location: | Croydon |
| Age: | 36 years |
| Sponsoring: | I don't expect money |
| Marital status: | single |
| I'm looking for a: | woman |
| Height: | 5ft 10in (178 cm) |
| Weight: | 11st 10lb (74.4 kg) |
| I like most: | pain |
| Light or hard: | very hard |
| I like: | bondage, spanking, pain, fetish, other |
| Last login: | in last 3 days |
Message him for free
Remember him
Would you like to play a game with me? ;-)
Currently looking for an online relationship only. Yes, I would prefer to have a relationship without the online part. No, at the moment, that is impossible. The why is work-related and I might be tempted to say more in private. The how is tricky, but if you imagine "stranded on an oil rig in the middle of the ocean", you'll be spot on (without the oil rig, ocean and sweaty male co-workers, lol). The when is that I should be back home around the first quarter of 2026 (Holly, thanks for the suggestion! / Didn't find anyone worth coming back for yet, so on we go for another year).
About me:
1. What do I like? Binding, torture, mental domination, degradation, training. These are topics that we will definitely agree on rather than a shopping list.
2. Yes, I am an ugly, evil dominant, rigger and trainer. ;-P
3. Yes, I have a lot of experience, especially with ropes. Bunnies welcome anytime, anywhere.
4. Patience is supposedly a virtue, so it seems that I'm not all sin. Seriously, though, I can match your pace, especially if you are just starting on BDSM.
5. I'm surprisingly well-practiced in safety (and first aid, in the worst case scenario), and if you are a fan of medical-style games, I guarantee that... I'm good at bandaging. ;-)
About you:
1. Preference for old-school domination over an idiot with a whip.
2. Looking for a LTR. Being up for a TPE or 24/7 relationship in the future is most welcome but not mandatory.
3. On the mascochism spectrum - again, this is not a requirement, but a welcome coincidence.
4. Above average in some way. I can take pride in the submission of somebody, not a nobody.
5. You are not a man (regardless of orientation), a dominant woman (let's be serious) or a spambot. I don't like spambots.
6. Statistics don't scare you. I'm sorry, this topic comes up and if you are allergic to it, you may suffer a bit. Of course, if you're into statistics-play, I won't judge. ;-)
7. You may be completely inexperienced, very experienced, or somewhere in between. Adjusting the "difficulty level" to a submissive is not a problem.
Public service announcements:
I am available on IRC, Toxie (tox.chat) and by e-mail. I do not use other messengers. If you want to contact me outside this portal, write and give me the contact details/ask for mine, but stick to the above trinity and do not ask me to use another messenger. If you do ask me to use another app, do not expect me to reply.
Since I receive quite a lot of messages, a few more announcements:
1. Messages from men and spambots are deleted automatically.
2. If you want to learn tying from me (Western, Asanawa/Shibari, SEA, China), you have to pay for my time - I don't currently have enough of it to devote half a day to someone for a kind word (or lack thereof).
3. If you want/expect something from me, write it directly - after e.g. thirty messages in a given day, I am not always in the mood for interpretive analysis, and as you can guess, I'm not a linguist.
Updates:
1. Most people here are time wasters. If you're one of them, do not message me at all.
2. If you ask for a video call, I accept and you go silent instead of discussing the particulars, do not message me at all.
3. If you subscribe to any other kind of idiocy (this site seems to keep on giving), please do not message me at all.
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