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I seem to like gentlemen who are traditional, charming, confident and erudite. I like a man to be a man, and the idealist in me refuses to believe that chivalry is dead.
I am specifically looking for someone who is naturally dominant in their professional and personal life. Full admiration and respect to a man who embraces his needs, desires and natural impulses without guilt. You will be single, sane, successful and experienced - I am not a guinea pig. Absolutely no switches or submissive men. Ideally fit and healthy (beer bellied, cuddly types don’t do it for me), certainly clean and presentable. Someone who makes me laugh. Physical attraction is definitely important (I've never been attracted to 'cuddly'/bald men, and I doubt that will change), but the mental/psychological connection is essential, no matter how many heads you turn in the street. I need to feel submissive to you, it is either there or it is not.
40-55ish, no older. Based in the South-East. This will most likely work if you are professional, intelligent, articulate and understand the nuances and power of psychological direction, authority, discipline, and mind-play. It is your words, intuition, and ability to stimulate my mind that will excite and fulfil me. A pair of pink, fluffy handcuffs in your top drawer won’t cut it.
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Pretty, girl-next-door type who looks after herself. Your mother would probably love me until she read my diary.
I am professionally educated, intelligent and articulate (except when tongue-tied, lectured and looked at disapprovingly). Kind. Open. Good-humoured. Astute. I am respectful, and certainly obedient in the right hands if the chemistry is there. Service-oriented - your pleasure is my pleasure and that genuinely does it for me. You in control, whether in play or something more. Direction, CP and discipline for real life or role-played transgressions, with consensual power exchange at the heart. Love domestic discipline, DDlg, humiliation, objectification..... and a man who looks good in a suit (o;
I am not your proverbial doormat, maid or domestic slave - find someone else to iron your shirts. My parents did a good job. (o;
I am looking for something that has the potential to become ‘more’ if the chemistry and will is there, so please do not contact me if you are married or in a relationship. It all comes out in the wash, and I have zero interest in being your brief, covert, clandestine encounter during a midweek lunchbreak. Aware that what I’m looking for is as rare as rocking horse sh*t, and so I am in no rush to find what I need and what is right for me. It is a marathon, not a sprint, and I know my worth, so please do not waste your time or mine if you do not align with what I am seeking and vice-versa.
I might consider a more casual, 'interim' arrangement with someone who is attached, but you'd have to be pretty spectacular and you'd need to be honest about this up front.
If you read to the end, very well done, go get yourself a glass of wine....
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DeeDee
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| Sex: | Female |
| Orientation: | submissive |
| Location: | Brighton |
| Age: | 42 years |
| Sponsoring: | I don't expect money |
| Marital status: | single |
| I'm looking for a: | man |
| Height: | 5ft 3in (160 cm) |
| Weight: | 7st 1lb (44.9 kg) |
| I like most: | spanking |
| Light or hard: | hard |
| I like: | bondage, spanking, pain, sex, other |
| Last login: | 16 hours ago |
Message her for free
Remember her
About you....
I seem to like gentlemen who are traditional, charming, confident and erudite. I like a man to be a man, and the idealist in me refuses to believe that chivalry is dead.
I am specifically looking for someone who is naturally dominant in their professional and personal life. Full admiration and respect to a man who embraces his needs, desires and natural impulses without guilt. You will be single, sane, successful and experienced - I am not a guinea pig. Absolutely no switches or submissive men. Ideally fit and healthy (beer bellied, cuddly types don’t do it for me), certainly clean and presentable. Someone who makes me laugh. Physical attraction is definitely important (I've never been attracted to 'cuddly'/bald men, and I doubt that will change), but the mental/psychological connection is essential, no matter how many heads you turn in the street. I need to feel submissive to you, it is either there or it is not.
40-55ish, no older. Based in the South-East. This will most likely work if you are professional, intelligent, articulate and understand the nuances and power of psychological direction, authority, discipline, and mind-play. It is your words, intuition, and ability to stimulate my mind that will excite and fulfil me. A pair of pink, fluffy handcuffs in your top drawer won’t cut it.
About me....
Pretty, girl-next-door type who looks after herself. Your mother would probably love me until she read my diary.
I am professionally educated, intelligent and articulate (except when tongue-tied, lectured and looked at disapprovingly). Kind. Open. Good-humoured. Astute. I am respectful, and certainly obedient in the right hands if the chemistry is there. Service-oriented - your pleasure is my pleasure and that genuinely does it for me. You in control, whether in play or something more. Direction, CP and discipline for real life or role-played transgressions, with consensual power exchange at the heart. Love domestic discipline, DDlg, humiliation, objectification..... and a man who looks good in a suit (o;
I am not your proverbial doormat, maid or domestic slave - find someone else to iron your shirts. My parents did a good job. (o;
I am looking for something that has the potential to become ‘more’ if the chemistry and will is there, so please do not contact me if you are married or in a relationship. It all comes out in the wash, and I have zero interest in being your brief, covert, clandestine encounter during a midweek lunchbreak. Aware that what I’m looking for is as rare as rocking horse sh*t, and so I am in no rush to find what I need and what is right for me. It is a marathon, not a sprint, and I know my worth, so please do not waste your time or mine if you do not align with what I am seeking and vice-versa.
I might consider a more casual, 'interim' arrangement with someone who is attached, but you'd have to be pretty spectacular and you'd need to be honest about this up front.
If you read to the end, very well done, go get yourself a glass of wine....
go back to search results