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Pretty, girl-next-door type who looks after herself, living in sunny Sussex and unable/unwilling to relocate. Petite red head with a profound understanding of, and need for, Ds psychology. Your mother would probably love me until she read my diary.
I am professionally educated, intelligent and articulate (except when tongue-tied, lectured and looked at disapprovingly). Kind. Open. Good-humoured. Astute. I am respectful, and certainly obedient in the right hands if the chemistry is there. Service-oriented - your pleasure is my pleasure and that genuinely does it for me. You in control, whether in play or something more. Direction, CP and discipline for real life or role-played transgressions, with consensual power exchange at the heart. Love domestic discipline, DDlg, humiliation, objectification, CnC, controlled service and good old-fashioned traditional values with a sound OTK spanking thrown in to ice the proverbial cake. Mmmmm. Oh, and a man who looks good in a suit (o;
I am not the cliched doormat, maid or domestic slave - find someone else to iron your shirts (o; I'm also not seeking high protocol, TPE, micromanagement or online play. At the end of the day, a successful Ds dynamic has to be balanced with the reality of life, and obtaining that balance requires maturity, a realistic approach, honesty and good communication. If you are looking for something akin to 'The Story of O', then all the best to you chasing your rainbow.
I appreciate men for whom their dominance is a need to be balanced by a willing submissive, as opposed to those who like/want a bit of bedroom kink, so I'm not here simply for games, play, rough sex and sporadic, carnal connections. BDSM, for me, is not about adding a bit of spice to sex with a butt plug or some nipple-clamps; rather, it is about deeper, mental engagement, reciprocal connection, mutual respect and balance.
I am not interested in swinging, saunas, gang bangs, group sex or being a unicorn for a couple. Each to their own, and I get how hard it can be to find a female to add a little excitement to your dynamic. Good luck with that, but in all honesty you won't find that luck here.
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About you....
I seem to like gentlemen who are traditional, charming, confident and erudite. I like a man to be a man, and the idealist in me refuses to believe that chivalry is dead.
I am specifically looking for someone who is naturally dominant in their professional and personal life. Full admiration and respect to those who embrace their needs, desires and natural impulses without guilt. You will be single, sane, successful and experienced - I am not a guinea pig. Absolutely NO switches/submissives/those looking to 'explore'. If you haven't got a grasp of what you like and who you are by now, then I'm not interested.
You will be fit & healthy, SLIM, TALL, OWN HAIR AND TEETH (note the emphasis here (o: ). Someone who makes me laugh. Physical attraction is definitely important, but the mental/psychological connection is essential, no matter how many heads you turn in the street. I need to feel submissive to you, it's either there or it's not.
45-55ish, no older, DEFINITELY NO YOUNGER. Local. This will most likely work if you are professional, intelligent, articulate, experienced and understand the nuances and power of psychological direction, authority, discipline, and mind-play. It is your words, intuition, and ability to stimulate my mind that will excite and fulfil me. A pair of pink, fluffy handcuffs in your top drawer won’t cut it.
When it works, it's fucking fantastic. Despite the bolshy profile, I assure you I am deeply submissive if the stars align. This profile is simply an attempt to line up the stars. If nothing comes of it, then I am at ease with this - life is good, regardless....
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I am looking for something that has the potential to become ‘more’ if the chemistry and will is there, so please do not contact me if you are married or in a relationship. It all comes out in the wash, and I have zero interest in being your brief, covert, clandestine encounter during a midweek lunchbreak. Aware that what I’m looking for is as rare as rocking horse sh*t, and so I am in no rush to find what I need and what is right for me. It is a marathon, not a sprint, so please do not waste your time or mine if you do not align with what I am seeking and vice-versa.
I MIGHT consider a more casual, 'interim' arrangement with someone who is attached and meets the above criteria, but you'd have to be pretty spectacular, be available at weekends (including nights - no dom and dash for me, thank you), and you'd need to be honest about this up front. Works better that way.
If you read to the end, very well done, go get yourself a glass of wine....
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DeeDee
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| Sex: | Female |
| Orientation: | submissive |
| Location: | Brighton |
| Age: | 42 years |
| Sponsoring: | I don't expect money |
| Marital status: | single |
| I'm looking for a: | man |
| Height: | 5ft 3in (160 cm) |
| Weight: | 7st 1lb (44.9 kg) |
| I like most: | spanking |
| Light or hard: | hard |
| I like: | bondage, spanking, pain, sex, other |
| Last login: | 2 days ago |
Message her for free
Remember her
About me....
Pretty, girl-next-door type who looks after herself, living in sunny Sussex and unable/unwilling to relocate. Petite red head with a profound understanding of, and need for, Ds psychology. Your mother would probably love me until she read my diary.
I am professionally educated, intelligent and articulate (except when tongue-tied, lectured and looked at disapprovingly). Kind. Open. Good-humoured. Astute. I am respectful, and certainly obedient in the right hands if the chemistry is there. Service-oriented - your pleasure is my pleasure and that genuinely does it for me. You in control, whether in play or something more. Direction, CP and discipline for real life or role-played transgressions, with consensual power exchange at the heart. Love domestic discipline, DDlg, humiliation, objectification, CnC, controlled service and good old-fashioned traditional values with a sound OTK spanking thrown in to ice the proverbial cake. Mmmmm. Oh, and a man who looks good in a suit (o;
I am not the cliched doormat, maid or domestic slave - find someone else to iron your shirts (o; I'm also not seeking high protocol, TPE, micromanagement or online play. At the end of the day, a successful Ds dynamic has to be balanced with the reality of life, and obtaining that balance requires maturity, a realistic approach, honesty and good communication. If you are looking for something akin to 'The Story of O', then all the best to you chasing your rainbow.
I appreciate men for whom their dominance is a need to be balanced by a willing submissive, as opposed to those who like/want a bit of bedroom kink, so I'm not here simply for games, play, rough sex and sporadic, carnal connections. BDSM, for me, is not about adding a bit of spice to sex with a butt plug or some nipple-clamps; rather, it is about deeper, mental engagement, reciprocal connection, mutual respect and balance.
I am not interested in swinging, saunas, gang bangs, group sex or being a unicorn for a couple. Each to their own, and I get how hard it can be to find a female to add a little excitement to your dynamic. Good luck with that, but in all honesty you won't find that luck here.
-----
About you....
I seem to like gentlemen who are traditional, charming, confident and erudite. I like a man to be a man, and the idealist in me refuses to believe that chivalry is dead.
I am specifically looking for someone who is naturally dominant in their professional and personal life. Full admiration and respect to those who embrace their needs, desires and natural impulses without guilt. You will be single, sane, successful and experienced - I am not a guinea pig. Absolutely NO switches/submissives/those looking to 'explore'. If you haven't got a grasp of what you like and who you are by now, then I'm not interested.
You will be fit & healthy, SLIM, TALL, OWN HAIR AND TEETH (note the emphasis here (o: ). Someone who makes me laugh. Physical attraction is definitely important, but the mental/psychological connection is essential, no matter how many heads you turn in the street. I need to feel submissive to you, it's either there or it's not.
45-55ish, no older, DEFINITELY NO YOUNGER. Local. This will most likely work if you are professional, intelligent, articulate, experienced and understand the nuances and power of psychological direction, authority, discipline, and mind-play. It is your words, intuition, and ability to stimulate my mind that will excite and fulfil me. A pair of pink, fluffy handcuffs in your top drawer won’t cut it.
When it works, it's fucking fantastic. Despite the bolshy profile, I assure you I am deeply submissive if the stars align. This profile is simply an attempt to line up the stars. If nothing comes of it, then I am at ease with this - life is good, regardless....
-----
I am looking for something that has the potential to become ‘more’ if the chemistry and will is there, so please do not contact me if you are married or in a relationship. It all comes out in the wash, and I have zero interest in being your brief, covert, clandestine encounter during a midweek lunchbreak. Aware that what I’m looking for is as rare as rocking horse sh*t, and so I am in no rush to find what I need and what is right for me. It is a marathon, not a sprint, so please do not waste your time or mine if you do not align with what I am seeking and vice-versa.
I MIGHT consider a more casual, 'interim' arrangement with someone who is attached and meets the above criteria, but you'd have to be pretty spectacular, be available at weekends (including nights - no dom and dash for me, thank you), and you'd need to be honest about this up front. Works better that way.
If you read to the end, very well done, go get yourself a glass of wine....
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