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So about me!
Vanilla me:
I'm in my early 60's so more water has passed under the bridge than is still to flow, but whilst I still have a pulse I want to enjoy life, I'm single, and never married and have no kids - that's a long story best kept for another time: definitely not for publishing in a profile on a kink site. But should we start talking then I'm happy to share more detail
I'm David, usually shortened to Dave, I'm educated, intelligent, I'd say a great sense of humour, well I'm not likely to say I'm dull and boring am I?
I don't smoke and drink socially, I'm extremely creative, both manually and mentally, and can build pretty much anything.
I live alone in my own home so I'm able to entertain or accommodate should the need arise. I drive, and having retired I'm free to travel so there won't be any lame excuses not to meet up.
You'll find me totally honest and open, there really isn't any room for lies and deceit in this lifestyle, after all if you're going to surrender your submission, then you really need to be able to trust me; how can you do that if all I've done is lie?
I'm 6ft tall and weigh around 14st, I'm not going to comment on looks etc, I'll leave that to others to decide for themselves, yes my hair is greying, but there is some colour to it, I'm letting it grow at the moment, just because I can, I don't feel I have to try and have a 'conforming' set look, or be something I'm not. I usually wear jeans and a shirt, but scrub up well and can carry wearing a suit!.
I like the usual vanilla aspects of life, good meals, theatre, cinema, crazy last minute adventures away, road trips, auctions and flea markets: I'm also a historian so am quite at home in museums or wandering around some ancient site or castle. Quite often becoming an ad-hoc tour-guide, but all things aside, if we are out somewhere then I can usually fill in any blanks.
So that’s a generalisation to the vanilla me!
The kink & fetish stuff:
I've been in this lifestyle for longer than I care to remember and although I have a varied amount of experiences none of that really matters as any new adventures are always different, what might work with one partner fails dismally with another. So we need to build our own world with our own rules and populate it with what we like.
I consider myself old school where D/s is symbiotic and both Dom and sub are equal, just because we have different preferences with what we like, that doesn't make either of us better nor worse than the other, we are just opposite ends of the same scale one cannot exist without the other.
I'm naturally dominant, not a switch and definitely not sub. I don't get the whole switch thing!
I don't have a set routine that I have to follow religiously, I prefer things to evolve and develop on their own merits, that way we're neither restricted to what we do, nor how we do them, and something erotic can evolve from the mundane!
I like the usual kinks and fetishes, I'm not going to cite a long list as that just reads like a creepy shopping list, I've ticked a few of the options the site gives, they're neither extensive nor compulsory.
So what am I looking for?
In truth that's open for discussion, I don't really see the point in one off’s, after all we really need to get to know each other to be able to properly explore our fetishes, you can't do that by just talking and hooking up once!
Don't get me wrong if that's all you want then I'm sure something can be arranged but ultimately I'm looking for something with a little more substance than just mindless sex. I'm not necessarily looking for something 24/7, but if it orientates towards that, then it isn't a problem.
I don't care about age, after all it's just numbers, I know so many on here have a hang up about age and are only looking for someone in a specific age band, I don't subscribe to those restrictions, but if that is your primary focus I won't argue it: personally I prefer to get to know someone for who they are, and not focus on age, size, colour or creed.
I'm looking for a submissive, I would prefer you to be able to hold a conversation, and able to voice what you like, I don't want to have to think for us both. I've lived TPE in the past, and yes I might consider it again with the right person, but it's not the primary criteria I'm looking for, just if it comes along then I'm more than capable of taking up the reigns.
I'm sure you have many kinks and fetishes that you like, that's great, I'm sure between us we'll have the imagination to incorporate all our likes into anything we do. I would hope you're adventurous and willing to explore new things, obviously not all the time, but every now and then would certainly add an extra dimension to the world we create.
I doubt if you can say anything that will phase or shock me, I've been around the playground for years, but only an idiot says 'never say never'
I have limits, the usual ones that most sane people have, and regardless of what anyone says I always use safe words: they're not for my benefit but yours. Anyone who says "Oh you won't need safe words I know what I'm doing" is dangerous, how the f*ck can they know what you need!
Yes I will monitor and focus on keeping you safe, during whatever we're doing, but I'm not infallible, I might miss something, or perhaps you are not as comfortable as I thought, either way safe words are there for you! I also suggest that you test them and see if I do observe them - it's the condom principle, better to have and not need than need and not have... You need to know I will observe safe words when you don't need them, rather than find out I don't when you do!
Thanks for getting this far, hopefully you've found something that interests you and you feel inspired to send a message, if not then thanks for looking and good luck on your journey I hope you find what you're looking for.
On that note I shall simply say
Keep smiling and stay happy, life’s too short to be miserable.
D.
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A Mirror Darkly
Hello - sane, single, searching for more????
| Sex: | Male |
| Orientation: | dominant |
| Location: | Swindon |
| Age: | 64 years |
| Sponsoring: | I don't expect money |
| Marital status: | single |
| I'm looking for a: | woman |
| Height: | 6ft 0in (183 cm) |
| Weight: | 14st 4lb (90.7 kg) |
| I like most: | fetish |
| Light or hard: | hard |
| I like: | bondage, spanking, sex, fetish, wax, clips, other |
| Last login: | in last 30 days |
Message him for free
Remember him
So about me!
Vanilla me:
I'm in my early 60's so more water has passed under the bridge than is still to flow, but whilst I still have a pulse I want to enjoy life, I'm single, and never married and have no kids - that's a long story best kept for another time: definitely not for publishing in a profile on a kink site. But should we start talking then I'm happy to share more detail
I'm David, usually shortened to Dave, I'm educated, intelligent, I'd say a great sense of humour, well I'm not likely to say I'm dull and boring am I?
I don't smoke and drink socially, I'm extremely creative, both manually and mentally, and can build pretty much anything.
I live alone in my own home so I'm able to entertain or accommodate should the need arise. I drive, and having retired I'm free to travel so there won't be any lame excuses not to meet up.
You'll find me totally honest and open, there really isn't any room for lies and deceit in this lifestyle, after all if you're going to surrender your submission, then you really need to be able to trust me; how can you do that if all I've done is lie?
I'm 6ft tall and weigh around 14st, I'm not going to comment on looks etc, I'll leave that to others to decide for themselves, yes my hair is greying, but there is some colour to it, I'm letting it grow at the moment, just because I can, I don't feel I have to try and have a 'conforming' set look, or be something I'm not. I usually wear jeans and a shirt, but scrub up well and can carry wearing a suit!.
I like the usual vanilla aspects of life, good meals, theatre, cinema, crazy last minute adventures away, road trips, auctions and flea markets: I'm also a historian so am quite at home in museums or wandering around some ancient site or castle. Quite often becoming an ad-hoc tour-guide, but all things aside, if we are out somewhere then I can usually fill in any blanks.
So that’s a generalisation to the vanilla me!
The kink & fetish stuff:
I've been in this lifestyle for longer than I care to remember and although I have a varied amount of experiences none of that really matters as any new adventures are always different, what might work with one partner fails dismally with another. So we need to build our own world with our own rules and populate it with what we like.
I consider myself old school where D/s is symbiotic and both Dom and sub are equal, just because we have different preferences with what we like, that doesn't make either of us better nor worse than the other, we are just opposite ends of the same scale one cannot exist without the other.
I'm naturally dominant, not a switch and definitely not sub. I don't get the whole switch thing!
I don't have a set routine that I have to follow religiously, I prefer things to evolve and develop on their own merits, that way we're neither restricted to what we do, nor how we do them, and something erotic can evolve from the mundane!
I like the usual kinks and fetishes, I'm not going to cite a long list as that just reads like a creepy shopping list, I've ticked a few of the options the site gives, they're neither extensive nor compulsory.
So what am I looking for?
In truth that's open for discussion, I don't really see the point in one off’s, after all we really need to get to know each other to be able to properly explore our fetishes, you can't do that by just talking and hooking up once!
Don't get me wrong if that's all you want then I'm sure something can be arranged but ultimately I'm looking for something with a little more substance than just mindless sex. I'm not necessarily looking for something 24/7, but if it orientates towards that, then it isn't a problem.
I don't care about age, after all it's just numbers, I know so many on here have a hang up about age and are only looking for someone in a specific age band, I don't subscribe to those restrictions, but if that is your primary focus I won't argue it: personally I prefer to get to know someone for who they are, and not focus on age, size, colour or creed.
I'm looking for a submissive, I would prefer you to be able to hold a conversation, and able to voice what you like, I don't want to have to think for us both. I've lived TPE in the past, and yes I might consider it again with the right person, but it's not the primary criteria I'm looking for, just if it comes along then I'm more than capable of taking up the reigns.
I'm sure you have many kinks and fetishes that you like, that's great, I'm sure between us we'll have the imagination to incorporate all our likes into anything we do. I would hope you're adventurous and willing to explore new things, obviously not all the time, but every now and then would certainly add an extra dimension to the world we create.
I doubt if you can say anything that will phase or shock me, I've been around the playground for years, but only an idiot says 'never say never'
I have limits, the usual ones that most sane people have, and regardless of what anyone says I always use safe words: they're not for my benefit but yours. Anyone who says "Oh you won't need safe words I know what I'm doing" is dangerous, how the f*ck can they know what you need!
Yes I will monitor and focus on keeping you safe, during whatever we're doing, but I'm not infallible, I might miss something, or perhaps you are not as comfortable as I thought, either way safe words are there for you! I also suggest that you test them and see if I do observe them - it's the condom principle, better to have and not need than need and not have... You need to know I will observe safe words when you don't need them, rather than find out I don't when you do!
Thanks for getting this far, hopefully you've found something that interests you and you feel inspired to send a message, if not then thanks for looking and good luck on your journey I hope you find what you're looking for.
On that note I shall simply say
Keep smiling and stay happy, life’s too short to be miserable.
D.
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