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Ive been looking for someone to play with for a few years now. Its hard to work out why its taking so long to find a good match.
There are lots of great men on here and other sites (some not so great admittedly), but there has to be an initial click - good chat. The chat needs to continue beyond the dating site and on the phone and there is the swapping of photos. He doesn’t fancy me or I dont fancy him. That’s all before we meet and see if the physical chemistry is there. So many hurdles to overcome.
Im getting jaded the longer my search continues. Is he out there? Am I looking for something unobtainable?
Below is more info on who Im looking for and some stuff about me… Yes its quite a read - I dont need to be told that, but wouldn’t you prefer to know lots before approaching, than waste time writing to a one liner?
I will struggle to respond to one word / one liner messages especially if your profile has almost no information in it too. There’s lots listed below that you can make into a conversation so please make an effort. I also ask that you prove you’ve read all the text, this shows you are actually interested. No proof, Im unlikely to reply…
So enjoy the read and look forward to hearing from you if you feel I could be a good match for you.
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Im a married, submissive female looking for someone (male) to tie me over a spanking bench or string me from the rafters or another bondage scenario and give me a good spanking, flogging, cropping or paddling in regular monthly play sessions.
A menopausal women in her 50s. I would say I am Rubenesque, I have extra curve. if you prefer a svelte little something, then Im not for you. However, if you like boobs and bums, Ive got quite a handful of each.
Vanilla Me loves cats, dogs, wine, sushi, jelly beans, Greggs jam doughnuts, ham, eggs and chips, cocktails, Asian beer, gardening, birds, swimming, sunbathing, site-seeing, internet surfing, family history, family, reality TV, Bridgerton, walking along the sealine, pillow talk, hugs, holding hands, kisses, smooches and snogs.
My husband is an incredible man; who has given me permission to find someone to fulfil my submissive side so Im looking for a play partner for some fun on a monthly basis - either during the day or an overnight in the main.
Being happily married I cannot offer a 24/7/365 relationship - anyone applying for the role has to accept that Husband has priority. NB My husband isnt interested in being part of the dynamic.
I am unable to accommodate, but I am willing to travel to meet within reason and Air BnBs or hotels would be ideal.
I believe I was born kinky or maybe it was being swaddled as a baby and the bars on my cot, either way I have been this way throughout my life.
My Sindy doll was often the damsel in distress - taken and tied up when I was young. Then as a teen, I discovered masturbation was vastly improved when you added a little self bondage.
I hid my true self throughout though as society said it was wrong. Imagine my amazement when I discovered there were dating sites for kinky people - suddenly I wasnt alone, there were thousands of kinky peeps out there!
I embraced internet dating and met and dated some amazing (and not so amazing) people and learnt a lot about myself.
Then I was lucky to find my husband through a fetish site. We are bondage enthusiasts, but he isnt into inflicting pain and doesnt enjoy dominating me so gave me permission to start searching for someone to play with.
I have had one play partner so far, but sadly Covid put paid to that so Im searching again.
One of my top 10 films is Gone with the Wind, although I preferred the book - Scarlett wasnt quite so much of a beeatch in the book.
Im not looking for a Rhett lookalike though, i just loved the dominance of Rhett and how he tamed Scarlett.
Id liken you to the way Rhett Butler acted towards Scarlett. Please woo me, send me regular messages to let me know you’re thinking of me.
I dont want a Wham Bam Thank You Mam on a monthly basis. Instead, show me that you’re interested and that I’m not just a booty call!
I need to know we click, that our SoH matches or you at least "get" me.
You’ll need patience, it takes time to get to know someone and ensure that the good connection needed for play is there, so I wont automatically go from a ‘Hi’ (dont tend to respond to just "Hi" anyway, prefer a proper conversation starter) to making a date for a drink, but if I feel there is chemistry, I will move to another platform to chat; speak on the phone and meet in real life.
Please be aware that I have responsibilities in real life so sometimes only have the time to read your message, but not enough to send a considered response.
I really detest Ghosters - ones who leave you hanging after youve started chatting or worse met! If you feel it's OK to do that to someone, then please jog on and don't bother getting in touch.
Chat solely based around bdsm is not what Im after. I need to know about the Man behind the messages too.
If your profile features the word “discreet” or “discretion”, then Im not interested. If you are married or attached then your partner needs to be aware of what you are up to.
You need to have an inner child that you let loose and aren’t afraid to experiment, but can laugh if it goes wrong.
Kinkwise, I like lots of things as you will see from the list below, but like to spice things up with role play too. Saucy secretary and Boss, Doctor and patient, naughty 6th former and Teacher, maid and hotel guest/house owner, wayward prisoner and Guard, Seasons Debutante and Rakish Lord of the Manor - Id love my bodice ripped and another one that Ive not considered before, which is ironic, given I have a love of Knights and armour - a Knight rescuing a damsel in distress and taking her back to his castle. Not expecting the full metal work and the horse could be difficult, a bit of chainmail maybe
Talking of horses, another I’m intrigued to try: a Riding Master and his pony. Love the idea of wearing a body harness and bridle and bit
PREFERABLES:
Snogs, neck and earlobe nibbling, bondage, bondage, oh and bondage (restrictive bondage is fab), sex, spanking, crops, floggers and paddles, role play, breast and nipple play, gags, hoods, gas masks, blindfolds, latex, leather, chains, ropes, straight jackets, mummification, collars, cuffs, insertables - vibrating or not, cages, racks.
NOT SURES
breast bondage and breast impact play,
HARD LIMITS
Humiliation, breath play, scat, pee, children, animals, stealthing, ra-pe, branding, permanent marks, punching, kicking, cutting, needles, blood, spitting, fisting, graphoerotica, non adjustable nipple clamps, defilement, infantileism, rimming, biting (nibbling is allowed)
Im fairly tall and so would like someone taller than me (more than 5ft 8inches ) Im a sucker for someone who wears glasses and I love a man in a suit - 2 or 3 piece.
I have a thing for strawberry blondes or red heads, but Im not that fussy
Nice hands, a good set of teeth and someone who smells lush and Im not averse to a Dad bod.
A man who gets having a pet e.g cat or dog etc, likes sushi, caravanning and camping, movies, with a music collection containing at least one musical in it and somehow the elusive chemistry would be there in vast quantities.
So now you know some stuff about me, why not drop me a line?
Make me a happy subby please by including the following as proof you’ve read my profile:
Let me know your fave flavour of crisps, where you get your current affairs info from and your star sign and here’s a conversation starter for you: What's the weirdest thing in your fridge right now?
Hope Ive piqued your interest and look forward to hearing from you soon :D
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There are a few knobheads on this site who seem to be struggling with being a man with a micro penis. I suggest checking out Amazon, there are books available on how to live with your tiny appendage and they aren't that expensive!!!
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| Sex: | Female |
| Orientation: | submissive |
| Location: | Peterborough |
| Age: | 54 years |
| Sponsoring: | I don't expect money |
| Marital status: | married |
| I'm looking for a: | man |
| Height: | 5ft 8in (173 cm) |
| Weight: | 1st 0lb (6.4 kg) |
| I like most: | bondage |
| Light or hard: | hard |
| I like: | bondage, spanking, pain, sex |
| Last login: | 7 hours ago |
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Ive been looking for someone to play with for a few years now. Its hard to work out why its taking so long to find a good match.
There are lots of great men on here and other sites (some not so great admittedly), but there has to be an initial click - good chat. The chat needs to continue beyond the dating site and on the phone and there is the swapping of photos. He doesn’t fancy me or I dont fancy him. That’s all before we meet and see if the physical chemistry is there. So many hurdles to overcome.
Im getting jaded the longer my search continues. Is he out there? Am I looking for something unobtainable?
Below is more info on who Im looking for and some stuff about me… Yes its quite a read - I dont need to be told that, but wouldn’t you prefer to know lots before approaching, than waste time writing to a one liner?
I will struggle to respond to one word / one liner messages especially if your profile has almost no information in it too. There’s lots listed below that you can make into a conversation so please make an effort. I also ask that you prove you’ve read all the text, this shows you are actually interested. No proof, Im unlikely to reply…
So enjoy the read and look forward to hearing from you if you feel I could be a good match for you.
***********
Im a married, submissive female looking for someone (male) to tie me over a spanking bench or string me from the rafters or another bondage scenario and give me a good spanking, flogging, cropping or paddling in regular monthly play sessions.
A menopausal women in her 50s. I would say I am Rubenesque, I have extra curve. if you prefer a svelte little something, then Im not for you. However, if you like boobs and bums, Ive got quite a handful of each.
Vanilla Me loves cats, dogs, wine, sushi, jelly beans, Greggs jam doughnuts, ham, eggs and chips, cocktails, Asian beer, gardening, birds, swimming, sunbathing, site-seeing, internet surfing, family history, family, reality TV, Bridgerton, walking along the sealine, pillow talk, hugs, holding hands, kisses, smooches and snogs.
My husband is an incredible man; who has given me permission to find someone to fulfil my submissive side so Im looking for a play partner for some fun on a monthly basis - either during the day or an overnight in the main.
Being happily married I cannot offer a 24/7/365 relationship - anyone applying for the role has to accept that Husband has priority. NB My husband isnt interested in being part of the dynamic.
I am unable to accommodate, but I am willing to travel to meet within reason and Air BnBs or hotels would be ideal.
I believe I was born kinky or maybe it was being swaddled as a baby and the bars on my cot, either way I have been this way throughout my life.
My Sindy doll was often the damsel in distress - taken and tied up when I was young. Then as a teen, I discovered masturbation was vastly improved when you added a little self bondage.
I hid my true self throughout though as society said it was wrong. Imagine my amazement when I discovered there were dating sites for kinky people - suddenly I wasnt alone, there were thousands of kinky peeps out there!
I embraced internet dating and met and dated some amazing (and not so amazing) people and learnt a lot about myself.
Then I was lucky to find my husband through a fetish site. We are bondage enthusiasts, but he isnt into inflicting pain and doesnt enjoy dominating me so gave me permission to start searching for someone to play with.
I have had one play partner so far, but sadly Covid put paid to that so Im searching again.
One of my top 10 films is Gone with the Wind, although I preferred the book - Scarlett wasnt quite so much of a beeatch in the book.
Im not looking for a Rhett lookalike though, i just loved the dominance of Rhett and how he tamed Scarlett.
Id liken you to the way Rhett Butler acted towards Scarlett. Please woo me, send me regular messages to let me know you’re thinking of me.
I dont want a Wham Bam Thank You Mam on a monthly basis. Instead, show me that you’re interested and that I’m not just a booty call!
I need to know we click, that our SoH matches or you at least "get" me.
You’ll need patience, it takes time to get to know someone and ensure that the good connection needed for play is there, so I wont automatically go from a ‘Hi’ (dont tend to respond to just "Hi" anyway, prefer a proper conversation starter) to making a date for a drink, but if I feel there is chemistry, I will move to another platform to chat; speak on the phone and meet in real life.
Please be aware that I have responsibilities in real life so sometimes only have the time to read your message, but not enough to send a considered response.
I really detest Ghosters - ones who leave you hanging after youve started chatting or worse met! If you feel it's OK to do that to someone, then please jog on and don't bother getting in touch.
Chat solely based around bdsm is not what Im after. I need to know about the Man behind the messages too.
If your profile features the word “discreet” or “discretion”, then Im not interested. If you are married or attached then your partner needs to be aware of what you are up to.
You need to have an inner child that you let loose and aren’t afraid to experiment, but can laugh if it goes wrong.
Kinkwise, I like lots of things as you will see from the list below, but like to spice things up with role play too. Saucy secretary and Boss, Doctor and patient, naughty 6th former and Teacher, maid and hotel guest/house owner, wayward prisoner and Guard, Seasons Debutante and Rakish Lord of the Manor - Id love my bodice ripped and another one that Ive not considered before, which is ironic, given I have a love of Knights and armour - a Knight rescuing a damsel in distress and taking her back to his castle. Not expecting the full metal work and the horse could be difficult, a bit of chainmail maybe
Talking of horses, another I’m intrigued to try: a Riding Master and his pony. Love the idea of wearing a body harness and bridle and bit
PREFERABLES:
Snogs, neck and earlobe nibbling, bondage, bondage, oh and bondage (restrictive bondage is fab), sex, spanking, crops, floggers and paddles, role play, breast and nipple play, gags, hoods, gas masks, blindfolds, latex, leather, chains, ropes, straight jackets, mummification, collars, cuffs, insertables - vibrating or not, cages, racks.
NOT SURES
breast bondage and breast impact play,
HARD LIMITS
Humiliation, breath play, scat, pee, children, animals, stealthing, ra-pe, branding, permanent marks, punching, kicking, cutting, needles, blood, spitting, fisting, graphoerotica, non adjustable nipple clamps, defilement, infantileism, rimming, biting (nibbling is allowed)
Im fairly tall and so would like someone taller than me (more than 5ft 8inches ) Im a sucker for someone who wears glasses and I love a man in a suit - 2 or 3 piece.
I have a thing for strawberry blondes or red heads, but Im not that fussy
Nice hands, a good set of teeth and someone who smells lush and Im not averse to a Dad bod.
A man who gets having a pet e.g cat or dog etc, likes sushi, caravanning and camping, movies, with a music collection containing at least one musical in it and somehow the elusive chemistry would be there in vast quantities.
So now you know some stuff about me, why not drop me a line?
Make me a happy subby please by including the following as proof you’ve read my profile:
Let me know your fave flavour of crisps, where you get your current affairs info from and your star sign and here’s a conversation starter for you: What's the weirdest thing in your fridge right now?
Hope Ive piqued your interest and look forward to hearing from you soon :D
*********************************
There are a few knobheads on this site who seem to be struggling with being a man with a micro penis. I suggest checking out Amazon, there are books available on how to live with your tiny appendage and they aren't that expensive!!!
go back to search results