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I’m back, and it seems like we keep coming back, right? If someone has BDSM as part of their DNA and is completely uninterested in vanilla, they will always return. But I’ve returned much richer in experience, both from this site and from contact with many of you, unfortunately. Female profiles always generate a large number of messages. However, it is really, really difficult to meet someone compatible here. I won’t complain anymore (like almost everyone here about fake people, liars, and scammers, whom I’ve unfortunately encountered here), but it’s also hard to sift through messages from people who don’t read profiles. When I write that I’m 55 years old and looking for people my age or older, what should I think about dozens of messages from 20-30-year-olds? I used to reply, but then I lost interest. Now they probably think I’m the fake one, but I’m just tired of it.
When I say I’m not interested in people in relationships or married, it’s not because I have anything against them, but because I don’t want to have designated hours for contact during their work hours, and the only time for a meeting is between 11 AM and 3 PM on weekdays. So if I don’t reply to such an email, does that mean I’m rude or not real? Or the long distances—I know that doesn’t work. Someone keeps convincing me they’ll drive 200 miles, how many times? Once? Let’s be realistic.
If we all read profiles more carefully and were honest when writing them—this world of ours would be much more beautiful. Well, I’ve said my piece, and I’ve returned because it would be nice to meet people who are deeply and long-term into BDSM.
Note: If someone discovers an interest in BDSM or M/s at the age of 55 and wants to start, I appreciate it, but I don’t have the patience or desire to explain the basics. I’m looking to connect only with those deeply into M/s. I’m a masochist as well, so both the psychological and the physical aspects are of great interest to me.
So now a few facts, please read and don’t reply if you don’t want to be ignored. I’m a very real person and don’t want to be rude, but I will ignore those who don’t meet my criteria.
- I am 55 years old and looking for older ppl or those very close in age.
- I am a sub and a masochist; I’m not looking for slaves, even if you offer to clean my house for free. ( tempting)
- I am a working and self-sufficient person; I’m not looking for sponsorship, but it’s nice if someone can invite me for coffee and pay for it—not because I can’t afford it, but call me a traditionalist. (And yes, I had to pay for the Coke I had during a meeting—once even for my own and his, because he thought that since I’m submissive, I should pay.)
- I’m interested in real people and real meetings—so please check where Bournemouth is and see the distance.
- I can’t and don’t want to offer 24/7.
- I have my age, and I don’t look like a model; I carry with me a baggage of life experiences, and every wrinkle or imperfection of my body confirms that. Oh, and if you want to criticize what I’ve written, I kindly inform you that the positive side of my age is that I don’t care what others think of me.
And you, if you understood and smiled at what I wrote—write to me PLEASE. Maybe we’ll laugh together, or we’ll meet, and it will be intense. Because I want it to be intense and hard; maybe you want that too, and together we’ll cross a few more boundaries. So?
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iamwhoiam
submissive
| Sex: | Female |
| Orientation: | submissive |
| Location: | Bournemouth |
| Age: | 55 years |
| Sponsoring: | I don't expect money |
| Marital status: | single |
| I'm looking for a: | man |
| Height: | 5ft 10in (178 cm) |
| Weight: | 13st 4lb (84.4 kg) |
| I like most: | other |
| Light or hard: | very hard |
| I like: | spanking, pain |
| Last login: | I'm online |
Message her for free
Remember her
I’m back, and it seems like we keep coming back, right? If someone has BDSM as part of their DNA and is completely uninterested in vanilla, they will always return. But I’ve returned much richer in experience, both from this site and from contact with many of you, unfortunately. Female profiles always generate a large number of messages. However, it is really, really difficult to meet someone compatible here. I won’t complain anymore (like almost everyone here about fake people, liars, and scammers, whom I’ve unfortunately encountered here), but it’s also hard to sift through messages from people who don’t read profiles. When I write that I’m 55 years old and looking for people my age or older, what should I think about dozens of messages from 20-30-year-olds? I used to reply, but then I lost interest. Now they probably think I’m the fake one, but I’m just tired of it.
When I say I’m not interested in people in relationships or married, it’s not because I have anything against them, but because I don’t want to have designated hours for contact during their work hours, and the only time for a meeting is between 11 AM and 3 PM on weekdays. So if I don’t reply to such an email, does that mean I’m rude or not real? Or the long distances—I know that doesn’t work. Someone keeps convincing me they’ll drive 200 miles, how many times? Once? Let’s be realistic.
If we all read profiles more carefully and were honest when writing them—this world of ours would be much more beautiful. Well, I’ve said my piece, and I’ve returned because it would be nice to meet people who are deeply and long-term into BDSM.
Note: If someone discovers an interest in BDSM or M/s at the age of 55 and wants to start, I appreciate it, but I don’t have the patience or desire to explain the basics. I’m looking to connect only with those deeply into M/s. I’m a masochist as well, so both the psychological and the physical aspects are of great interest to me.
So now a few facts, please read and don’t reply if you don’t want to be ignored. I’m a very real person and don’t want to be rude, but I will ignore those who don’t meet my criteria.
- I am 55 years old and looking for older ppl or those very close in age.
- I am a sub and a masochist; I’m not looking for slaves, even if you offer to clean my house for free. ( tempting)
- I am a working and self-sufficient person; I’m not looking for sponsorship, but it’s nice if someone can invite me for coffee and pay for it—not because I can’t afford it, but call me a traditionalist. (And yes, I had to pay for the Coke I had during a meeting—once even for my own and his, because he thought that since I’m submissive, I should pay.)
- I’m interested in real people and real meetings—so please check where Bournemouth is and see the distance.
- I can’t and don’t want to offer 24/7.
- I have my age, and I don’t look like a model; I carry with me a baggage of life experiences, and every wrinkle or imperfection of my body confirms that. Oh, and if you want to criticize what I’ve written, I kindly inform you that the positive side of my age is that I don’t care what others think of me.
And you, if you understood and smiled at what I wrote—write to me PLEASE. Maybe we’ll laugh together, or we’ll meet, and it will be intense. Because I want it to be intense and hard; maybe you want that too, and together we’ll cross a few more boundaries. So?
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