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From reading profiles on here I see that some women say an awful lot about themselves, and complain about blokes who don't. I suppose that kind of sums up what we are all like in many ways. Blokes don't really wanna chat too much, though there are exceptions, and ladies love being loquacious, though again there are exceptions.
I am not really here to chat, but in some ways I wouldn't mind, especially if it was on relevant topics(!) I would assume that if you are on this site, you must have particular interests. And you would understand that so do I.
Most female profiles say 'don't bother if you are married' or, 'single, unattached males only', which is all fine for them, but not for me. A person of my age has obviously been around a bit, and experienced things. You would expect someone like me to have 'involvements' with people, and I do have that. If I could ever be of interest to you, this would have to be OK. I have a relationship(s) and that will not change. So that is maybe as far as you read on my profile. Fair enough, and best of luck to you.
If you are still here than you are probably in a minority. Maybe you are bored, or lonely, or hungry or something. I guess I am all those too. The situation is I am new to all this but have clear, consistent, strong desires to get involved in BDSM activities. People I am close to IRL have no interest or inclination that way. So that leaves me frustrated and unfulfilled. What am I supposed to do? Dream, hope, wonder what might have happened if I had tried anything? I'd rather have a go and see what happens.
I am sincere and genuine and real. I am not in a position to be completely open about exact location, identity, real details and I can't post my face. You need to be able to understand that. Certain realities of life just won't allow this. However, it should be possible to develop some sort of friendship despite all this, based on shared interests. I want to talk to people who are maybe in a similar boat? I am prepared to be very respectful indeed, and would only ever take part in completely consensual activities both ways. Boundaries need to be respected. I have laid out mine, and if you accept them I will accept yours probably (once you tell me what they are!) I would say looks are unimportant, and that is true, but obviously being male then feminine beauty is never going to not matter at all. It does matter, but it is not the main thing. For me, the main thing is attitude and kink. I am looking for a submissive, non-exclusive woman who just wants fairly light-hearted fun that involves all kind of kink related activities where I play the dominant role. I don't care how old you are, what your relationship status is, what you do in your normal life, or even where you are based. Though local is obviously easier. And this can be a regular, maybe even long-term thing, but it can't involve too much time as we all have our lives to live. I am a tall, broad-shouldered, caucasian male with a reasonable figure. Not an athlete, but not obese either. I have better-than-average looks, and if/when we meet you will not be disappointed.
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Sideluv
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| Sex: | Male |
| Orientation: | dominant |
| Location: | Farnborough |
| Age: | 51 years |
| Sponsoring: | I don't expect money |
| Marital status: | married |
| I'm looking for a: | woman |
| Height: | 5ft 11in (180 cm) |
| Weight: | 15st 0lb (95.3 kg) |
| I like most: | spanking |
| Light or hard: | very hard |
| I like: | bondage, spanking, pain, sex, fetish |
| Last login: | over 30 days ago |
Message him for free
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From reading profiles on here I see that some women say an awful lot about themselves, and complain about blokes who don't. I suppose that kind of sums up what we are all like in many ways. Blokes don't really wanna chat too much, though there are exceptions, and ladies love being loquacious, though again there are exceptions.
I am not really here to chat, but in some ways I wouldn't mind, especially if it was on relevant topics(!) I would assume that if you are on this site, you must have particular interests. And you would understand that so do I.
Most female profiles say 'don't bother if you are married' or, 'single, unattached males only', which is all fine for them, but not for me. A person of my age has obviously been around a bit, and experienced things. You would expect someone like me to have 'involvements' with people, and I do have that. If I could ever be of interest to you, this would have to be OK. I have a relationship(s) and that will not change. So that is maybe as far as you read on my profile. Fair enough, and best of luck to you.
If you are still here than you are probably in a minority. Maybe you are bored, or lonely, or hungry or something. I guess I am all those too. The situation is I am new to all this but have clear, consistent, strong desires to get involved in BDSM activities. People I am close to IRL have no interest or inclination that way. So that leaves me frustrated and unfulfilled. What am I supposed to do? Dream, hope, wonder what might have happened if I had tried anything? I'd rather have a go and see what happens.
I am sincere and genuine and real. I am not in a position to be completely open about exact location, identity, real details and I can't post my face. You need to be able to understand that. Certain realities of life just won't allow this. However, it should be possible to develop some sort of friendship despite all this, based on shared interests. I want to talk to people who are maybe in a similar boat? I am prepared to be very respectful indeed, and would only ever take part in completely consensual activities both ways. Boundaries need to be respected. I have laid out mine, and if you accept them I will accept yours probably (once you tell me what they are!) I would say looks are unimportant, and that is true, but obviously being male then feminine beauty is never going to not matter at all. It does matter, but it is not the main thing. For me, the main thing is attitude and kink. I am looking for a submissive, non-exclusive woman who just wants fairly light-hearted fun that involves all kind of kink related activities where I play the dominant role. I don't care how old you are, what your relationship status is, what you do in your normal life, or even where you are based. Though local is obviously easier. And this can be a regular, maybe even long-term thing, but it can't involve too much time as we all have our lives to live. I am a tall, broad-shouldered, caucasian male with a reasonable figure. Not an athlete, but not obese either. I have better-than-average looks, and if/when we meet you will not be disappointed.
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