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Hello. I'm new to the BDSM world; my romantic nature and deep longing to be controlled has led me here.
I'm 27 year's old, based in the UK, and a bisexual virgin. My experience has been primarily in relationships with women. I view sex as something sacred and waiting to share that with the right person. My work and family commitments have played a role in limiting my relationships. I lead a healthy lifestyle, focusing on maintaining a good appearance and living cleanly.
I hate having my time wasted, when communication and honesty are not valued.
I've long harboured fantasies about men, and lately, the idea of being a Sub has deeply intrigued me. In my everyday life, I'm seen as a masculine man, and I've kept my attraction to men a secret, planning to maintain that privacy. My taste in men is specific; I prefer those who are dominant and masculine, between the ages of 25 and 45.
I want us to be completely obsessed and devoted to each other.
Confidence doesn't come easily to me; I'm often plagued by doubts about not being good enough and feeling out of place. I grew up in a toxic and challenging family environment. Despite being sensitive and emotional, I'm also opinionated and straightforward, never hesitating to speak the truth. The hardships I've endured have shaped me into who I am today, and I try to appreciate what I have, recognising that I have a purpose and achievements to be proud of, with more yet to come.
Others would describe me as gentle and too kind for my own good.
I'm seeking a Dom whose primary goal is to cultivate love within our relationship, someone who can guide me through life's complexities. I desire a mentor and a leader, a person whose presence commands respect and whose direction I can trust implicitly.
Control and leadership is what I'm missing.
I need a Dom who is decisive, takes initiative, and wields their power confidently. While I may appear vulnerable, especially when isolated or after a mistake, I do not fall in love easily. I value friendship, personality immensely, emphasising patience, slow progress, and the development of an emotional bond through clear communication, honesty, and dedication.
Compatibility is key.
My ideal partner has his own needs which I can fulfil obediently. I am not attracted to someone who is laid-back; rather, I'm drawn to a man who is assertive, knows what he wants, and exudes strong masculine energy. I admire traits like aloofness, arrogance, mystery and allure. I hope to unlock his gentler side, becoming his support and confidant.
When I'm not withdrawn, I'm actually quite lively, always striving to make others laugh and engage in deep, meaningful discussions. I enjoy staying active and being helpful. Although I have ambitions, I typically adopt a relaxed, adaptable approach to life. I'm motivated by others, often placing their needs above my own. On tough days, I can be stubborn and prefer solitude, which happens quite often.
It's essential that you genuinely relish the role of being a Dom for me. I tend to overthink and am skilled at interpreting subtle cues.
Ultimately, I'm not looking for a perfect Dom but one who can turn his mistakes into strengths. I seek a Dom who is intelligent, disciplines me when necessary, and effectively uses his voice to assert his dominance.
I'd like to open up a discussion about kinks, and as a Sub, I feel it's important to be accommodating for my Dom.
Preferred kinks: kissing, dirty talk, manhandling, slapping, missionary, consensual non-consent, light bimbofication, dumbification, and role-playing.
Hard limits: minors and non-sentient animals, pony/puppy play, DD/lg, humiliation, sweat, feet, scat, urine, blood, and significant pain.
If you have made it to the end of my long post (I'm sorry!) and want to see if we will click, please feel free to message me.
I intend to take this post down when I have met my match.
Thank you for reading, and good luck.
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avonova8
27, UK Online LTR - A sincere & obedient Sub
| Sex: | Male |
| Orientation: | submissive |
| Location: | Birmingham |
| Age: | 27 years |
| Sponsoring: | I don't expect money |
| Marital status: | single |
| I'm looking for a: | man |
| Height: | 5ft 8in (173 cm) |
| Weight: | 10st 4lb (65.3 kg) |
| I like most: | sex |
| Light or hard: | very light |
| I like: | sex |
| Last login: | over 30 days ago |
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Hello. I'm new to the BDSM world; my romantic nature and deep longing to be controlled has led me here.
I'm 27 year's old, based in the UK, and a bisexual virgin. My experience has been primarily in relationships with women. I view sex as something sacred and waiting to share that with the right person. My work and family commitments have played a role in limiting my relationships. I lead a healthy lifestyle, focusing on maintaining a good appearance and living cleanly.
I hate having my time wasted, when communication and honesty are not valued.
I've long harboured fantasies about men, and lately, the idea of being a Sub has deeply intrigued me. In my everyday life, I'm seen as a masculine man, and I've kept my attraction to men a secret, planning to maintain that privacy. My taste in men is specific; I prefer those who are dominant and masculine, between the ages of 25 and 45.
I want us to be completely obsessed and devoted to each other.
Confidence doesn't come easily to me; I'm often plagued by doubts about not being good enough and feeling out of place. I grew up in a toxic and challenging family environment. Despite being sensitive and emotional, I'm also opinionated and straightforward, never hesitating to speak the truth. The hardships I've endured have shaped me into who I am today, and I try to appreciate what I have, recognising that I have a purpose and achievements to be proud of, with more yet to come.
Others would describe me as gentle and too kind for my own good.
I'm seeking a Dom whose primary goal is to cultivate love within our relationship, someone who can guide me through life's complexities. I desire a mentor and a leader, a person whose presence commands respect and whose direction I can trust implicitly.
Control and leadership is what I'm missing.
I need a Dom who is decisive, takes initiative, and wields their power confidently. While I may appear vulnerable, especially when isolated or after a mistake, I do not fall in love easily. I value friendship, personality immensely, emphasising patience, slow progress, and the development of an emotional bond through clear communication, honesty, and dedication.
Compatibility is key.
My ideal partner has his own needs which I can fulfil obediently. I am not attracted to someone who is laid-back; rather, I'm drawn to a man who is assertive, knows what he wants, and exudes strong masculine energy. I admire traits like aloofness, arrogance, mystery and allure. I hope to unlock his gentler side, becoming his support and confidant.
When I'm not withdrawn, I'm actually quite lively, always striving to make others laugh and engage in deep, meaningful discussions. I enjoy staying active and being helpful. Although I have ambitions, I typically adopt a relaxed, adaptable approach to life. I'm motivated by others, often placing their needs above my own. On tough days, I can be stubborn and prefer solitude, which happens quite often.
It's essential that you genuinely relish the role of being a Dom for me. I tend to overthink and am skilled at interpreting subtle cues.
Ultimately, I'm not looking for a perfect Dom but one who can turn his mistakes into strengths. I seek a Dom who is intelligent, disciplines me when necessary, and effectively uses his voice to assert his dominance.
I'd like to open up a discussion about kinks, and as a Sub, I feel it's important to be accommodating for my Dom.
Preferred kinks: kissing, dirty talk, manhandling, slapping, missionary, consensual non-consent, light bimbofication, dumbification, and role-playing.
Hard limits: minors and non-sentient animals, pony/puppy play, DD/lg, humiliation, sweat, feet, scat, urine, blood, and significant pain.
If you have made it to the end of my long post (I'm sorry!) and want to see if we will click, please feel free to message me.
I intend to take this post down when I have met my match.
Thank you for reading, and good luck.
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