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Big Red

Confident Dominant Seeking Deep Connection and Dev

Sex:Male
Orientation:dominant
Location:Swansea
Age:36 years
Sponsoring:I don't expect money
Marital status:single
I'm looking for a:woman
Height:5ft 11in (180 cm)
Weight:18st 3lb (115.7 kg)
I like most:sex
Light or hard:hard
I like:bondage, spanking, pain, sex, fetish, wax, other
Last login:in last 30 days

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I'm a confident and dominant who values trust, communication. I believe that a true D/s dynamic is built on a strong foundation of respect, understanding, and emotional connection where both of us feel seen, safe, and fulfilled.

I work in the oil and gas industry as a degree qualified professional in a driven environment that I thrive in. I'm not interested in games or ego trips. I’m looking for something real and lasting that could be a lifestyle opposed to a weekend meet. If your into motorcycles then that's a big plus for me.

Hobbies and interests:

Powerlifting and resistance training. I get up at 0500 every morning to do this Monday to Friday. I enjoy doing meal prep for the week on a Sunday and living a healthy lifestyle. I would like someone to be on board with this and maybe even train together. If you smoke then it's a no from me for sure, not interested. However, cocktails at a nice bar to meet for the first time would be welcomed and maybe a nice restaurant to follow.

What I’m Looking For:

I’m seeking a submissive woman who craves structure, attention, and guidance. Someone who finds fulfilment in surrender, who feels safe expressing vulnerability, and who desires a Dominant who is attentive, consistent, and invested in her well-being.

Whether you’re experienced or curious, what matters most is that you’re open, self-aware, and serious about discovering or deepening your submissive side. I want to build something meaningful, ideally long-term, where kink and connection go hand in hand.

Kinks & Interests (Latex and restraint):

Rituals, rules, and structure

Impact play (with proper aftercare)

Control (in bedroom)

Emotional intimacy

Ownership dynamics

All limits are respected, and everything is always SSC (Safe, Sane, and Consensual).

If this resonates with you, I’d love to talk. Tell me about what submission means to you, and what you’re hoping to find.

Let’s build something real together.

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