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domin8ter83

41 (M4F) #Cyber, online, virtual.. Dom seeks a Sub

Sex:Male
Orientation:dominant
Location:Swadlincote
Age:41 years
Sponsoring:I don't expect money
Marital status:married
I'm looking for a:woman
Height:6ft 0in (183 cm)
Weight:16st 10lb (106.1 kg)
I like most:spanking
Light or hard:hard
I like:bondage, spanking, fetish, wax, other
Last login:online today

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I’m a 41-year-old Dominant male from England, grounded in both my professional life (think tailored suit and tie) and in my 17 years of experience in the lifestyle. My kink interests centre around spanking, impact play, obedience training, and creating powerfully structured dynamics that are as emotionally fulfilling as they are physically intense.

What Our Dynamic Might Look Like:

• A strong daily connection through messages, tasks, photos/videos, and voice notes (both SFW and NSFW, with complete respect for privacy and consent at all times).

• Routines crafted to guide your days and reinforce your submission.

• Clothing choices and privileges like wearing underwear earned through good service.

• Fun, playful challenges and tasks with real rewards.

• A space where you’re safe to explore, express, and evolve emotionally, mentally, and sexually.

I also care about the little things: how your day was, what you’re making for dinner, what music you’re listening to. I believe in building a connection that’s not just a dynamic and includes our vanilla lives.

This isn’t just about obedience it’s about devotion, trust, and you knowing that every instruction, every challenge, and every rule is designed to support your growth and bring out your most authentic submissive self.

I prefer depth and detail in conversations, not just short or surface-level responses. The devil’s in the details, after all.

I am in a vanilla and committed relationship however she wouldn't be involved with our arrangement.

Transparency, honesty and respect are non-negotiables for me. If my being partnered doesn’t align with what you’re seeking, I completely understand and wish you well.

I have my photograph on my profile and happy to share if we click.

Bonus if you send your favourite photograph of yourself with your message (SFW)

Just to be clear this lifestyle is a passion of mine I do not expect the discussion of money exchange in any way.

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