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I’m Ashley, 57, single, and based in Surrey/Hampshire border. I’m a man who’s lived fully, loved deeply, and learned the value of both discipline and tenderness. Life has taught me that time is precious, and so I’ve stepped away from the 9-to-5 world to embrace freedom, exploration, and connection.
I’m a Dominant with an old soul and a calm but commanding presence. I value respect, communication, and mutual trust above all. I see submission as a beautiful gift, not something to be demanded but something to be earned through integrity, care, and a deep understanding of your needs. I believe in the natural order of things , in guidance, structure, and nurturing control.
Submission Is A Gift
Recognising the power of the erotic within our lives can give us the energy to pursue genuine change within our world” -Audre Lorde
“I believe in the radical possibilities of pleasure babe” - Bikini Kill
Are you ready to surrender? To peel back your layers, bare your truth, and let go of every inhibition that’s been holding you back?
Euphoria? Absolutely. Pleasure? Better when it’s earned. Trust and surrender? That’s where the real magic begins.
I don’t chase control, I command it with presence, patience, and purpose. I don’t need to roar. A whisper can break you if it comes at the right moment.
This isn’t just kink. It’s a calling.
I believe in the power of connection, the deep, electric kind that blooms when you give yourself fully and find out just how powerful vulnerability can be.
Curiosity is welcome. Boundaries are respected. Safe words are sacred. If you bring honesty and desire, I’ll bring control and care.
If you’re a true submissive, a woman who understands the difference between obedience and surrender, we’ll get along very well.
I thrive on the tension in your eyes when you’re bound and aching to please… Your body, teased slowly until you’re trembling. Your clit, nipples, and ass, explored, owned, and used. You’ll be restrained. You’ll be played with.
You’ll be taught to crave the sound of my voice. Whether it’s praise or punishment, every word will shape you.
Obedience will arouse you. Humiliation will train you. Your submission will feed us both.
Aftercare isn’t a courtesy, it’s a promise. When I break you down, I’ll also be the one to hold you after.
When I’m not in the world of kink, I’m often out in nature , walking the rugged trails of Wales, exploring the lakes and moors, or discovering quiet corners of the world off the beaten path. I’m passionate about photography, art, and meaningful travel. I have little interest in tourist spots ,I prefer to find the soul of a place, just as I hope to uncover the soul of the one I connect with.
I’m not here to play games or waste anyone’s time. I’m here for depth , for a submissive who longs for real structure, genuine affection, and perhaps, to be taken on a journey of surrender and self-discovery.
Whether you’re experienced or new, shy or curious, if you believe in the beauty of power exchange and want someone grounded, attentive, and quietly intense — I’d love to hear from you.
Let’s walk the path together — one step at a time, barefoot in the wild, or bound in trust.
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Submission Is A Gift Seeking Playmates
| Sex: | Male |
| Orientation: | dominant |
| Location: | Hook |
| Age: | 57 years |
| Sponsoring: | I don't expect money |
| Marital status: | single |
| I'm looking for a: | woman |
| Height: | 6ft 0in (183 cm) |
| Weight: | 12st 10lb (80.7 kg) |
| I like most: | spanking |
| Light or hard: | hard |
| I like: | bondage, spanking, pain, sex, fetish, wax, clips, other |
| Last login: | in last 30 days |
Message him for free
Remember him
I’m Ashley, 57, single, and based in Surrey/Hampshire border. I’m a man who’s lived fully, loved deeply, and learned the value of both discipline and tenderness. Life has taught me that time is precious, and so I’ve stepped away from the 9-to-5 world to embrace freedom, exploration, and connection.
I’m a Dominant with an old soul and a calm but commanding presence. I value respect, communication, and mutual trust above all. I see submission as a beautiful gift, not something to be demanded but something to be earned through integrity, care, and a deep understanding of your needs. I believe in the natural order of things , in guidance, structure, and nurturing control.
Submission Is A Gift
Recognising the power of the erotic within our lives can give us the energy to pursue genuine change within our world” -Audre Lorde
“I believe in the radical possibilities of pleasure babe” - Bikini Kill
Are you ready to surrender? To peel back your layers, bare your truth, and let go of every inhibition that’s been holding you back?
Euphoria? Absolutely. Pleasure? Better when it’s earned. Trust and surrender? That’s where the real magic begins.
I don’t chase control, I command it with presence, patience, and purpose. I don’t need to roar. A whisper can break you if it comes at the right moment.
This isn’t just kink. It’s a calling.
I believe in the power of connection, the deep, electric kind that blooms when you give yourself fully and find out just how powerful vulnerability can be.
Curiosity is welcome. Boundaries are respected. Safe words are sacred. If you bring honesty and desire, I’ll bring control and care.
If you’re a true submissive, a woman who understands the difference between obedience and surrender, we’ll get along very well.
I thrive on the tension in your eyes when you’re bound and aching to please… Your body, teased slowly until you’re trembling. Your clit, nipples, and ass, explored, owned, and used. You’ll be restrained. You’ll be played with.
You’ll be taught to crave the sound of my voice. Whether it’s praise or punishment, every word will shape you.
Obedience will arouse you. Humiliation will train you. Your submission will feed us both.
Aftercare isn’t a courtesy, it’s a promise. When I break you down, I’ll also be the one to hold you after.
When I’m not in the world of kink, I’m often out in nature , walking the rugged trails of Wales, exploring the lakes and moors, or discovering quiet corners of the world off the beaten path. I’m passionate about photography, art, and meaningful travel. I have little interest in tourist spots ,I prefer to find the soul of a place, just as I hope to uncover the soul of the one I connect with.
I’m not here to play games or waste anyone’s time. I’m here for depth , for a submissive who longs for real structure, genuine affection, and perhaps, to be taken on a journey of surrender and self-discovery.
Whether you’re experienced or new, shy or curious, if you believe in the beauty of power exchange and want someone grounded, attentive, and quietly intense — I’d love to hear from you.
Let’s walk the path together — one step at a time, barefoot in the wild, or bound in trust.
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