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A willing, intelligent male for use

Sex:Male
Orientation:submissive
Location:Peterborough
Age:43 years
Sponsoring:I don't expect money
Marital status:married
I'm looking for a:woman
Height:6ft 2in (188 cm)
Weight:15st 3lb (96.6 kg)
I like most:sex
Light or hard:hard
I like:bondage, spanking, pain, sex
Last login:online today

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Tall, broad, strong, very intelligent, and with empathy.
I'm looking for a mistress who wishes a strong, willing, intelligent and capable man to please her when we have time.

I have some experience, but believe that I should treat all meetings as a first, always looking to impress, never taking anything for granted.
I am, first and foremost, a real people pleaser, I respond to your pleasure, I have a high degree of empathy, able to note how you are feeling and react accordingly.

There are a few things which I feel it is necessary to state to avoid wasting your time, I would appreciate it if you took the time to read the below despite the length:

I am a very masculine man; 6'2" and built to match. I am not excessively hairy, but I do not wax/shave (except my face). I do trim.
I am married and this part of my character is not known. Discretion is therefore paramount, and that then also means I cannot change my appearance to suit you.
I work very hard so between life and work my time is very limited as such I am not looking for a relationship or a lifestyle arrangement, I wish to find someone who would like to use me as we can. I can arrange occasional daytime play dates.

I'm not worried about your level of experience, whilst I enjoy being tested by an experienced Mistress who knows exactly what she wants, I'm also keen to be with someone who is only just learning about her needs and wants. My responsiveness and control make me an ideal toy to experiment with. The fact that I get real pleasure from your pleasure also means that I am open to trying anything. An example is that I've never wanted to try WaterSports, the objective thought was off putting to me, however I was with a partner recently and she made it clear that she wanted to, not only did I obey, but the real pleasure she took from seeing me accept all she had to give and clean her up on command had me literally begging for more, yet I know I would not enjoy this with someone who wasn't getting her own pleasure from this (if that makes sense?).

As to the things I don't want... and I do apologise for this, but I have been through a lot of this before:
I am very aware of all the various scams and money making schemes that infest this community, therefore I do start from a position of cynicism and scepticism, for all of the genuine people, if this means I upset you or you are not willing to take the time to engage before jumping straight to sex talk, I'm sorry. But please don't blame me for this, blame the many others who ruin this.
As mentioned, I'm not looking for a relationship outside of our meets, a long term partner would be nice, but I cannot commit to regularly communicating or building an online relationship - it is occasional physical meetings I would like (with enough communication between to establish the right connection). At the right time, I prefer Telegram as a messaging tool, so would happily share my id once we are at that point
I'm not looking for any form of financial submission. I do not wish to pay upfront for anything. That said, I am financially secure and of course would never expect my Mistress to have to be out of pocket for anything around our dates, but I have seen most scams, so please do not look for payment before anything. I will not give any form of tribute, pay to meet (even if you tell me its a one time special offer just for me), book rooms etc... If we talk, get along well, you feel I may be appropriate for you, then I would like to meet somewhere safely in person (coffee shop, shopping centre, even out for lunch) so that I can establish some form of in person rapport. Then once we have that connection I'm more than happy to do what is needed to make the rare times we can meet a pleasure for you.

I appreciate that will put off a lot of people, and because of that I may miss out on something special, but that's OK. I'm not here for a quick fix, I am a genuine man with a will to please and can take as long as necessary to find the one who is right for me; if you think that might be you, please do get in touch. I can assure you I am very eloquent and can communicate well xx

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