Crazy Cat

Queer butch seeks connection

Sex:	Female
Orientation:	switch
Location:	Southampton
Age:	52 years
Sponsoring:	I don't expect money
Marital status:	single
I'm looking for a:	woman, man
Height:	5ft 2in (157 cm)
Weight:	9st 3lb (58.5 kg)
I like most:	spanking
Light or hard:	hard
I like:	bondage, spanking, pain, other
Last login:	I'm online

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Queer, butch, non-binary, non-conforming - often on principle.

Aggressively feminist in a “we need to tear down the patriarchy” kind of way, but not man-hating. I celebrate diversity, and want to see equal opportunities for every unique human on the planet.

I'm childfree, carfree, smoke and drugfree, and drink very rarely (long covid has left me with a range of intolerances, and one of them is alcohol). I'm very concerned about the collapse of our environmental systems, and try to keep my consumption of all resources to a minimum - not easy because cats are the ultimate consumers and I have 5 of them.

Bottom left corner politically (see the Political Compass), socially awkward - I'm 100% certain I'm autistic (possibly AuDHD) but still waiting for formal assessment – gamer (MMOer, anyway), keen reader, writer (and aspiring author) of fantasy fiction.

Honest, loyal, reliable. Tough on the outside with a sensitive core for people I allow close enough to see it.

Not sure if I’m dominant or submissive – maybe both, maybe neither, maybe it depends on who I’m with. Definitely masochist, primary kinks are spanking and cp, with a generous side of more general impact and pain play. Not into hook-ups or one-offs of any kind; I need that connection first.

Looking for interesting people to talk to and see what happens. It would be nice to meet someone for a relationship, but that isn't something you can force. It either happens or it doesn't, and friends and play partners are good too.

And no, I can't tell you what kind of people I'm likely to be compatible with. If I'm attracted to you, it's for your personal energy, not for whatever category society has assigned you. Being an animal lover, open-minded, and enjoying deep conversation is a good place to start. Be a non-smoker, please.

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