misspain

Experienced Dom

Sex:	Female
Orientation:	dominant
Location:	London
Age:	35 years
Sponsoring:	I don't expect money
Marital status:	single
I'm looking for a:	man
Height:	5ft 8in (173 cm)
Weight:	10st 0lb (63.5 kg)
I like most:	pain
Light or hard:	very hard
I like:	bondage, spanking, pain, fetish, wax, clips, other
Last login:	3 days ago

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I am a dominant woman who enjoys control, structure, and consensual pain delivered with intent. I am calm, deliberate, and unapologetic about my standards. I do not rush dynamics, and I do not indulge fantasy bravado.

Obedience should be informed, not frantic. Pain, when used properly, is purposeful and grounding. I am not cruel - but I am exacting, consistent, and fully present.

If you are looking to test, challenge, or negotiate authority, you are not what I’m seeking. If you are looking for someone whose rules are clear and enforced without drama, continue reading.

Dynamic Interests:

Female-led power exchange
Consensual pain with meaning
Psychological dominance
Discipline, restraint, control

Requirements (Non-Negotiable):

Under 45 only
Clear communication and emotional maturity
Full respect for consent, limits, and structure
Reliability and follow-through

Photos:
If you do not have a clear, recent photo on your profile, you will be expected to share one early. Anonymity is not a substitute for effort.

Experience:
Enough to know exactly what I want - and what I won’t tolerate.

Limits:
Discussed privately. Assumptions will end the conversation.

Final Note:
I am not here to educate, babysit, or perform dominance for validation. If you message me, do so with intention, awareness, and respect - or don’t message at all.

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