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Bondage bottom seeking a like-minded Top

Age:50 years
Sponsoring:I don't expect money
Marital status:married
I'm looking for a:man
Height:5ft 3in (160 cm)
Weight:9st 4lb (59 kg)
I like most:bondage
Light or hard:hard
I like:bondage
Last login:6 hours ago

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Short version (though I recommend reading the long version for a full insight into who I am and what I am seeking):

My profile is getting a lot of attention from submissives. Please note that I have absolutely NO INTEREST in subs (or switches). I am seeking the extraordinary.

I am a bondage bottom NOT a submissive (yes, there is a difference). I'm all about the "B" and nothing about the "DSM". If your profile says "Seeking a sub/slave" and you write to me saying we are perfectly matched do not be surprised that you get no reply! I am educated to a level that means I do not suffer fools gladly. I am not seeking/offering casual sex or "NSA fun". No, really. I'm not looking for a casual hook up. Read it again before writing to me. I am a romantic who is seeking a one-to-one relationship with someone who utterly adores seeing a lady blissed out in bondage. I am not looking to be gooseberry to a couple. I am not looking for a submissive or a switch, and I'm actually not even looking for a Shibari expert (I'm more into messy, fun, spontaneous DiD than pretty knots). If you're not in the south east of the UK and willing to meet for real there's little point in contacting me.

Long version:

Seeking a man (not a couple!) who is as passionate about bondage as I am.

I do not follow any of the rules. If you're looking for an easy ride look elsewhere...

Ignore the word "submissive" next to my name on this website. There is no label for what I am. I'm not looking for a "Dom/Master"; I have no need for that sort of dynamic. I will submit to bondage, but outside of that you and I are equals.

Nor am I a masochist. I'm not into receiving pain or being called names. If you want to degrade someone or cause them pain then please look elsewhere. Pain and bondage are not intrinsically linked. For me it's about that mental connection, initially flirting by email whilst we discuss what might happen when we meet. Enough detail to know what's off limits, but not too much detail that means there's no surprises in store and hopefully ending up with us both quivering with excitement as the first ropes (or other bonds) start to encircle my body...

There is a beauty and intensity in bondage that cannot be expressed in any other way. A passionate "dance" between two people, gripping them and enticing them in to experience more and more. You will be practical (even sensible), but still imaginative even daring or challenging at the right times.

I am not seeking 24/7, but I would hope we would be drinking buddies and restaurant companions as well as me being your bound, teased, (maybe eventually) ravished playmate (maybe, but that's not top of the list). And when we were done we would laugh together and plan the next scene, exploring that sensuous, pleasurable and restrictive world of bondage together.

The mental connection is so important. You've got to like that person, want that person, respect that person, laugh with that person, and be very open with that person. The click, the same wavelength, the same needs and desires, are for me the most important. There has to be that trust there to be open with one another and to learn from, and teach each other.

I am willful, passionate about everything I do and a hopeless romantic. That means that bondage is NOT an excuse for meaningless sex. You will have to win my heart before you get anywhere near my body.

Thank you for taking the time to fully read my profile.

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