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After a long term dom-sub relationship ended I have a vacancy for a mature female wanting to explore her submissive side. Experience isn't necessary but a willingness to stretch your limits is.
You should be based within travelling distance of Epsom in Surrey and available at least once a week.
TERMS OF SUBMISSION
This document is intended to provide the sub with behaviour guidelines. It is not exhaustive and other rules may be imposed at the Master's discretion.
Preparation for meetings.
The sub must prepare for each meeting with the master.
All pubic, under arm, leg, arm and other body hair must be removed. The sub may choose any suitable method but there must be no stubble and no stray hairs.
The sub must take a bath or shower and wash her hair.
The sub must floss and brush her teeth and use a mouthwash.
The sub must not apply any perfume, lipstick or other makeup.
The sub must wear any clothes specified by the master/.
Session dates and times.
Sessions will be arranged in advance to suit the schedules of the master and sub.
If the sub is still having periods then sessions will be scheduled to avoid dates when she is bleeding.
If the sub cannot make a session she must inform the master immediately.
The sub must arrive at the Master's house within five minutes either side of the specified arrival time. If she arrives at any time outside of this she will be punished.
Obedience.
The sub must obey the master at all times.
Good behaviour will be rewarded.
Any disobedience will result in a punishment.
The sub must perform all tasks to her full ability. If the master considers that she is not putting enough effort into a task she will be punished.
Clarification of instructions.
When told to perform a duty by the Master, the sub will do so without delay or question unless she does not understand the meaning of the order. She may seek clarification of any order from the Master. This is not to be interpreted as a means of arguing are disagreeing with the Master's orders.
Safewords.
There are two safewords.
The safeword is Redlight which is only to be used when the sub has reached her limits.
If the sub is getting close to her limits she may use the word Yellowlight. The master is under no obligation to stop at the yellow light warning.
If the sub is to be gagged, or otherwise unable to say the safeword, then a prearranged gesture may be used.
The safeword can be spoken at any time -even when the sub has been told to be silent.
In general, the sub is not allowed a safeword during punishment. She must remember that punishment could never be very effective if she were able to control it and she is only allowed the use of a safeword in extreme circumstances.
The sub must take punishment in full measure so that she will focus on the correction of her behaviour for the long term, for unlike discipline, punishment is not what she will want again. She should know better.
Language.
The sub must always address the master as "Master" when in a session.
In any other social situation the master and sub will address each other by their first names.
The sub will use whatever words the master tells her to use to describe parts of his or her body, sexual acts or any other item or activity.
The subs body.
During sessions the subs body belongs to the master.
Unless otherwise instructed the sub will be naked during all of each session.
There are three entrances to the subs body. All three will be used for the Master's entertainment.
The sub has no say in which entrance is used on any given occasion.
Orgasms.
The sub is forbidden to cum without permission.
If the sub feels that she is getting close to cumming she must beg for permission to cum.
If permission to cum is granted she must cum as quickly as possible.
If permission to cum is not given she must resist the urge to cum as hard as possible but must not stop the activities that make her want to cum.
Whenever the sub cums, either with or without permission, she must say the words "I'm cumming" out loud.
Cumming without permission will result in a punishment.
Masturbation.
The sub is forbidden to masturbate at any time unless instructed to do so by the master.
The sub is forbidden to use any sex toys unless instructed to do so by the master.
Disobedience.
If the sub knows that she has disobeyed the master at any time she must immediately tell the master. If the sub is not with the master at the time she must send a text message containing a detailed description of her disobedience.
Punishments.
The sub agrees to accept any punishment the Master decides to inflict, whether earned or not. Punishments will vary but may include.
Spankings.
Being forbidden to cum for a certain period.
Assignment and completion of punishment tasks.
If the master decides that a punishment is required the sub must accept her punishment without complaint.
Any complaints about a punishment will result in a more severe punishment.
There is no right of appeal against a punishment.
At the end of a punishment the sub must thank the master for her punishment and apologise for her disobedience.
Homework tasks.
The sub will sometimes be set tasks to perform between meetings with the master. These tasks must be completed to the required standard within the required timescale. .
Non completion of a task, or not being completed to the required standard will result in a punishment.
Rewards.
Good behaviour will be rewarded.
Rewards may include.
The receipt of oral sex.
Being granted permission to masturbate.
Being granted permission to cum.
Being given a card to cancel out a future punishment.
Spankings.
When the master has decided to spank the sub she must adopt whatever position she is instructed to.
This may include over the Master's knee, bending over a chair, on her knees with her head down and bottom up or other positions.
During a spanking the sub must count each spank out loud. She must not make any other sound.
The sub must stay still during a spanking.
Any noise or movement may result in a more severe spanking.
Oral sex.
The sub will be required to perform regular oral sex on the master.
Unless otherwise instructed the master will cum in the subs mouth.
The sub will hold the Master's cum in her mouth in case the master instructs her to show it.
The sub will always swallow the Master's cum.
The sub will lick the Master's cock clean of all remaining cum.
The sub will learn to deep throat the Master's cock.
Anal sex.
The sub will be required to accept regular anal sex.
This will be performed with a condom and appropriate lubrication.
The sub will also be required to wear butt plugs and to use sex toys in her anus.
Use of the toilet.
The sub must request the Master's permission to use the toilet.
Privacy.
The sub has no right to privacy when using the toilet, taking a shower or any other activity.
Mobile phones.
The master accepts that the sub has responsibilities outside of the relationship.
If the sub feels that she might need to be contactable during a session she may leave her mobile phone nearby and switched on. In case of an emergency the sub may answer calls.
Questions.
The sub will be asked questions about her sexual fantasies, preferences, experiences, likes and dislikes. She must answer immediately and truthfully. If she is found to be lying she will be punished.
Others.
The sub may not seek any other Mistress/Master or lover or relate to others in any sexual or submissive way without the Master's permission. To do so will result in extreme punishment.
Sitting.
The sub is forbidden to sit unless told to do so.
Bondage.
The sub may sometimes be bound in various ways. This may include being tied to a bed, having her hands tied behind her back or other.
Secrecy .
The sub must not talk to anybody apart from the master about the relationship.
All physical evidence of the sub relationship will be kept in total secrecy.
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InCharge
Experienced Dom looking for a submissive female
| Sex: | Male |
| Orientation: | dominant |
| Location: | Epsom |
| Age: | 65 years |
| Sponsoring: | I don't expect money |
| Marital status: | divorced |
| I'm looking for a: | woman |
| Height: | 6ft 0in (183 cm) |
| Weight: | 13st 1lb (83 kg) |
| I like most: | sex |
| Light or hard: | hard |
| I like: | bondage, spanking, sex, fetish |
| Last login: | in last 10 days |
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Remember him
After a long term dom-sub relationship ended I have a vacancy for a mature female wanting to explore her submissive side. Experience isn't necessary but a willingness to stretch your limits is.
You should be based within travelling distance of Epsom in Surrey and available at least once a week.
TERMS OF SUBMISSION
This document is intended to provide the sub with behaviour guidelines. It is not exhaustive and other rules may be imposed at the Master's discretion.
Preparation for meetings.
The sub must prepare for each meeting with the master.
All pubic, under arm, leg, arm and other body hair must be removed. The sub may choose any suitable method but there must be no stubble and no stray hairs.
The sub must take a bath or shower and wash her hair.
The sub must floss and brush her teeth and use a mouthwash.
The sub must not apply any perfume, lipstick or other makeup.
The sub must wear any clothes specified by the master/.
Session dates and times.
Sessions will be arranged in advance to suit the schedules of the master and sub.
If the sub is still having periods then sessions will be scheduled to avoid dates when she is bleeding.
If the sub cannot make a session she must inform the master immediately.
The sub must arrive at the Master's house within five minutes either side of the specified arrival time. If she arrives at any time outside of this she will be punished.
Obedience.
The sub must obey the master at all times.
Good behaviour will be rewarded.
Any disobedience will result in a punishment.
The sub must perform all tasks to her full ability. If the master considers that she is not putting enough effort into a task she will be punished.
Clarification of instructions.
When told to perform a duty by the Master, the sub will do so without delay or question unless she does not understand the meaning of the order. She may seek clarification of any order from the Master. This is not to be interpreted as a means of arguing are disagreeing with the Master's orders.
Safewords.
There are two safewords.
The safeword is Redlight which is only to be used when the sub has reached her limits.
If the sub is getting close to her limits she may use the word Yellowlight. The master is under no obligation to stop at the yellow light warning.
If the sub is to be gagged, or otherwise unable to say the safeword, then a prearranged gesture may be used.
The safeword can be spoken at any time -even when the sub has been told to be silent.
In general, the sub is not allowed a safeword during punishment. She must remember that punishment could never be very effective if she were able to control it and she is only allowed the use of a safeword in extreme circumstances.
The sub must take punishment in full measure so that she will focus on the correction of her behaviour for the long term, for unlike discipline, punishment is not what she will want again. She should know better.
Language.
The sub must always address the master as "Master" when in a session.
In any other social situation the master and sub will address each other by their first names.
The sub will use whatever words the master tells her to use to describe parts of his or her body, sexual acts or any other item or activity.
The subs body.
During sessions the subs body belongs to the master.
Unless otherwise instructed the sub will be naked during all of each session.
There are three entrances to the subs body. All three will be used for the Master's entertainment.
The sub has no say in which entrance is used on any given occasion.
Orgasms.
The sub is forbidden to cum without permission.
If the sub feels that she is getting close to cumming she must beg for permission to cum.
If permission to cum is granted she must cum as quickly as possible.
If permission to cum is not given she must resist the urge to cum as hard as possible but must not stop the activities that make her want to cum.
Whenever the sub cums, either with or without permission, she must say the words "I'm cumming" out loud.
Cumming without permission will result in a punishment.
Masturbation.
The sub is forbidden to masturbate at any time unless instructed to do so by the master.
The sub is forbidden to use any sex toys unless instructed to do so by the master.
Disobedience.
If the sub knows that she has disobeyed the master at any time she must immediately tell the master. If the sub is not with the master at the time she must send a text message containing a detailed description of her disobedience.
Punishments.
The sub agrees to accept any punishment the Master decides to inflict, whether earned or not. Punishments will vary but may include.
Spankings.
Being forbidden to cum for a certain period.
Assignment and completion of punishment tasks.
If the master decides that a punishment is required the sub must accept her punishment without complaint.
Any complaints about a punishment will result in a more severe punishment.
There is no right of appeal against a punishment.
At the end of a punishment the sub must thank the master for her punishment and apologise for her disobedience.
Homework tasks.
The sub will sometimes be set tasks to perform between meetings with the master. These tasks must be completed to the required standard within the required timescale. .
Non completion of a task, or not being completed to the required standard will result in a punishment.
Rewards.
Good behaviour will be rewarded.
Rewards may include.
The receipt of oral sex.
Being granted permission to masturbate.
Being granted permission to cum.
Being given a card to cancel out a future punishment.
Spankings.
When the master has decided to spank the sub she must adopt whatever position she is instructed to.
This may include over the Master's knee, bending over a chair, on her knees with her head down and bottom up or other positions.
During a spanking the sub must count each spank out loud. She must not make any other sound.
The sub must stay still during a spanking.
Any noise or movement may result in a more severe spanking.
Oral sex.
The sub will be required to perform regular oral sex on the master.
Unless otherwise instructed the master will cum in the subs mouth.
The sub will hold the Master's cum in her mouth in case the master instructs her to show it.
The sub will always swallow the Master's cum.
The sub will lick the Master's cock clean of all remaining cum.
The sub will learn to deep throat the Master's cock.
Anal sex.
The sub will be required to accept regular anal sex.
This will be performed with a condom and appropriate lubrication.
The sub will also be required to wear butt plugs and to use sex toys in her anus.
Use of the toilet.
The sub must request the Master's permission to use the toilet.
Privacy.
The sub has no right to privacy when using the toilet, taking a shower or any other activity.
Mobile phones.
The master accepts that the sub has responsibilities outside of the relationship.
If the sub feels that she might need to be contactable during a session she may leave her mobile phone nearby and switched on. In case of an emergency the sub may answer calls.
Questions.
The sub will be asked questions about her sexual fantasies, preferences, experiences, likes and dislikes. She must answer immediately and truthfully. If she is found to be lying she will be punished.
Others.
The sub may not seek any other Mistress/Master or lover or relate to others in any sexual or submissive way without the Master's permission. To do so will result in extreme punishment.
Sitting.
The sub is forbidden to sit unless told to do so.
Bondage.
The sub may sometimes be bound in various ways. This may include being tied to a bed, having her hands tied behind her back or other.
Secrecy .
The sub must not talk to anybody apart from the master about the relationship.
All physical evidence of the sub relationship will be kept in total secrecy.
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