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Paradigm

Mature man with alternative outlook on relationshi

Sex:Male
Orientation:dominant
Location:Basingstoke
Age:60 years
Sponsoring:I don't expect money
Marital status:married
I'm looking for a:woman, couple
Height:6ft 2in (188 cm)
Weight:17st 6lb (110.7 kg)
I like most:sex
Light or hard:hard
I like:bondage, spanking, pain, sex, fetish, other
Last login:in last 3 days

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Hello and thanks for checking out my profile

I am a tall, handsome (obviously) man based in Hampshire with my sights set on finding the right someone with whom to explore some of the kinkier aspects of life. I can hold my own in conversation on a wide range of subjects although I think it would be far more enjoyable if someone else was holding it ;) . One of the conversation exceptions is "Did you see such and such on the tv last night?" because the answer is likely to be no which tends ti kill that conversation. I really don't watch much tv.

As with any kind of relationship both sides have to be getting something they want or need from it. If you feel the same and you are looking for some contact between dates, if you have time for drinks or dinner as well as kink then we might get on.

I am not big on lists of things people must be into or must not be into. I am far more interested in people who are genuine and looking to explore within agreed limits.

If I had one comment to make about the site it is that the options when defining what you are and what you are into seem to be a bit simplistic and I don't think the dynamics of these types of relationship are that simple.

If you have reached this point I am going to suggest that there is probably something here that appealed to you so dont be shy , say hello, introduce yourself and lets chat.

Please note: I work on the basis that a few messages should be enough to indicate whether it is worth having a coffee or a drink as a next step. I dont intend to spend weeks messaging back and forth and I wont move to another platform such as kik or google chat. If we have shared interests and hit it off, then those platforms might be useful, but not before. Apologies if this seems curt or rude but there are so many time wasting fakes on here that this is part of a process by which I can weed them out and focus on the gems amongst you.

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