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A masochistic sub looking for a sadist Dom(me)

Age:26 years
Sponsoring:I don't expect money
Marital status:single
I'm looking for a:woman, man
Height:5ft 2in (157 cm)
Weight:8st 8lb (54.4 kg)
I like most:torture
Light or hard:very hard
I like:bondage, spanking, torture, sex, fetish, fisting
Last login:10 hours ago

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I'm looking for a sadistic Dom or Domme near Cheltenham for a regular long term arrangement.

I'm fairly slim and I'm on the short side. I have fiery red hair. Ok I'm a ginge. Less racism against gingers please. We are people too. :))



I like to be restrained completely while I'm punished. If I am not restrained I will move too much and it will get messy. Rope play looks good but I don't really have the patience for it. I prefer cuffs, straps and collars so I'm immobilized quickly.

I also like blindfolds and gags. Gags might be essential depending on where we are because I'm noisy when I'm being hurt.


I like all types of impact play. Spanking, floggers, canes, paddles, belts, whips, crops.
I need someone who is a confident sadist who can keep going when I start screaming and crying or if I start begging. I want to be able to beg and mean it. Inexperienced people tend to back off. If I'm not using my safe signal for mercy or stop then you need to have the confidence to keep going. I don't want to have to ask someone to start whipping me. It completely ruins the scene for me. I want to feel that you would continue even if I have my safe signal but obviously I don't want someone who would actually ignore the signal.


Sex is fine during or ideally after the punishment. I'm into anal, mainly because it's like another punishment. The same thing applies, I need someone confident enough to keep going if I'm screaming or crying or begging.
We would need a full STI test before. It's free and anonymous on the NHS. I'll explain it if we get to that stage.


My NO list
No blood. A little after whipping is ok but no cutting or piercing
No permanent damage.
No tattooing, branding or scarring
No scat
No burning. Hot wax is ok
No drunks. If you smell of alcohol or seem even slightly drunk then the scene will not happen and we will never meet again.
No surprises. Until I trust you we need to agree what you might be doing in that scene before it starts. Tell me everything you might want to do. Once I trust you it won't be necessary but until then I need to know what is going to happen in the scene before it starts.


Somewhere near Cheltenham
Under 40
Photo on your profile
Not obese. If unsure check the NHS BMI calculator
Not Married. (Unless you're a couple obvs)

Ideally I'm looking for a regular long term arrangement. I'm not looking for love but it would be nice if we get on well together. We can swap photos via email and if we seem to match in what we want then we can talk on video. There will be no meeting if we haven't talked on video first.


I'm getting more messages than I thought I would so please say more than 4 or 5 words. I can't talk to everyone who messages so if you just say "Hey there!" you shouldn't be surprised if I don't reply to you first.

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